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\"Talk<\/a>Breaking up might be hard to do, but sometimes it\u2019s also the right thing to do.<\/p>\n

Here are 10 excellent reasons to break up:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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\u2022 You know the relationship has no long-term potential.<\/strong>\u00a0After dating for a while, if you realise that the relationship will eventually run its course, ending it is likely the best thing for both of you. You want to find someone who will be in it for the long haul.<\/p>\n

\u2022 \u00a0The relationship has run its course.<\/strong>\u00a0Maybe you didn\u2019t get out early enough. Get out now.<\/p>\n

When the relationship feels over, let it be over. Don\u2019t cling to it just because you\u2019ve wasted so much time on it already.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You\u2019ve been hurt physically or emotionally.<\/strong>\u00a0Some damage can\u2019t be undone.<\/p>\n

Staying in an abusive relationship will only deepen those wounds with time, it won\u2019t heal them. Seek professional help if you\u2019re not sure how to leave.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You\u2019ve been cheated on, or you\u2019ve cheated.<\/strong>\u00a0Rarely can dating relationships rebound from infidelity. Let him\/her go.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Someone else is on your mind.<\/strong>\u00a0Do. Not. Cheat. If you\u2019re constantly wishing your significant other was someone else \u2014 or that you could date other people \u2014 take the high road and end the relationship before things get messy.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Everyone else is rallying against the relationship.<\/strong>\u00a0If your friends and family \u2014 people who are generally trustworthy and supportive \u2014 hate your relationship, listen to them.<\/p>\n

Sometimes outsiders have better perspectives of an unhealthy relationship than those in it.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Your values don\u2019t align.<\/strong>\u00a0Sure, you both like Thai food, reggae and Christopher Nolan films. But if all you have in common is the little stuff, the relationship is going to be stunted.<\/p>\n

If you know that you don\u2019t agree on things like family, faith and finances, it\u2019s okay to end things amicably so that you can both find people who have similar priorities.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You\u2019re not happy \u2014 and haven\u2019t been for a very long time.<\/strong>\u00a0Every relationship has its ups and downs. But if you can\u2019t remember the last time either of you laughed or had a great time together, assess the health of your relationship. Are you staying because you want to? Or just because you\u2019re stubborn?<\/p>\n

\u2022 You feel uneasy about the relationship.<\/strong>\u00a0If you\u2019re constantly trying to convince yourself to stay, maybe you shouldn\u2019t. Trust your intuition.<\/p>\n

\u2022 You\u2019re not growing together.<\/strong>\u00a0Neither of you are at your best when you\u2019re together. There\u2019s no personal growth, you don\u2019t feel good about yourself when you\u2019re with your significant other and you\u2019re no longer thriving.<\/p>\n

A healthy relationship brings out the best in both partners.<\/p>\n

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Source: Graphic Showbiz<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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