{"id":79187,"date":"2015-01-04T13:39:42","date_gmt":"2015-01-04T13:39:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=79187"},"modified":"2015-01-04T07:55:50","modified_gmt":"2015-01-04T07:55:50","slug":"12-signs-hell-great-bed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/01\/12-signs-hell-great-bed\/","title":{"rendered":"12 signs he’ll be great in bed"},"content":{"rendered":"
1. He’s actually interested in how your day was. <\/strong>If he’s asking lots of probing\u00a0questions about you (what you care about, why you had a hard day at work, etc.), he’s trying to find out what makes you happy. And if he’s doing that, he’ll probably be just as interested in finding out what works for you in bed. Which is a great starting point.<\/p>\n 2. He knows how to touch you in general. <\/strong>If he’s able to touch\u00a0your hand in a way that feels amazing or massage your head in a way that makes your eyes roll back in your head, it’s pretty much guaranteed that he knows how to handle everything else properly.<\/p>\n 4. He’s a super ambitious person. <\/strong>I once dated someone who was incredibly lazy and,\u00a0not-at-all\u00a0shocker, they were pretty much the same way in bed. There are exceptions to this, of course, but generally speaking, if he’s a hard worker in life, he’s not going to slack off once you guys finally have sex.<\/p>\n 5. He’s a great dancer.<\/strong> OK, this is just true. Guys who say they hate dancing always make me laugh because\u00a0why would you admit that you hate moving your body in a fun way? You might as well just straight-up tell me, “I will fuck you poorly,” because that’s all I’m hearing when you say it.<\/p>\n 6. He makes serious, intense eye contact with you.<\/strong> When I look back on people I’ve dated and I think about what it felt like to actually look into their eyes \u2014 if\u00a0they had\u00a0problems with eye contact, if they seemed kind of nervous and scattered \u2014 it really was indicative of what sex was like with them. If you look at a guy and even eye contact with him is seriously intense in a way that makes you the best kind of nervous, yeah, it’s gonna be outstanding sex. It just is.<\/p>\n 7. He doesn’t rush anything.<\/strong>\u00a0My friend recently went on a\u00a0first date where the guy\u00a0tried to put his hand down her\u00a0pants three seconds after they\u00a0started kissing. They never went out again and I continue to think he is a gigantic piece of street garbage (also there’s no way his hands were clean, which is just upsetting), but I guarantee if she’d slept with him, it would’ve lasted five minutes tops. If a guy doesn’t jump down your throat when you start kissing him, and\u00a0if things continue to\u00a0unfold slowly, the same will be true in bed.<\/p>\n 8. He’s nonjudgmental in general.<\/strong> If he’s not judgmental about your love of watching Bridesmaids<\/em>every single\u00a0Friday night like it’s the first time you’ve ever seen it, he probably won’t be judgmental of any kinks you have either.<\/p>\n 9. He uses his hands in a way that suggests he’s, uh, good at using them. <\/strong>Even if it’s just a matter of watching the\u00a0way he\u00a0uses\u00a0his hands when he speaks,\u00a0you know when someone knows what they’re doing.<\/p>\n 10. When you ask him to stop doing something\/anything, he stops. <\/strong>If you tell him to stop making fun of something because it hurts your feelings and\u00a0he immediately stops and apologizes, he’ll probably do the same thing in bed. This is maybe the most important thing in the world.<\/p>\n 11. You feel genuinely comfortable around him.<\/strong> If you feel like he accepts and respects you, you’re going to be able to be more communicative around him, and it means he’ll take note of everything you say (and hint at), and act on it.<\/p>\n 12. He’s confident in general.<\/strong> I know this is said all the time, but it’s really true. If someone isn’t confident at all, it doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll be bad in bed, but it does usually mean they won’t be fantastic in bed. Which is almost just as bad.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Source:\u00a0cosmopolitan.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" 1. He’s actually interested in how your day was. If he’s asking lots of probing\u00a0questions about you (what you care about, why you had a hard day at work, etc.), he’s trying to find out what makes you happy. And if he’s doing that, he’ll probably be just as interested in finding out what works […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":79188,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[38,51],"yoast_head":"\n