{"id":55209,"date":"2014-10-10T11:48:42","date_gmt":"2014-10-10T11:48:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=55209"},"modified":"2014-10-10T11:52:44","modified_gmt":"2014-10-10T11:52:44","slug":"confused-about-your-new-guy-give-him-the-boyfriend-test","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2014\/10\/confused-about-your-new-guy-give-him-the-boyfriend-test\/","title":{"rendered":"Confused about your new guy? Give him the ‘Boyfriend Test’"},"content":{"rendered":"
How many times in your life have you fallen for an unavailable man? How many times have you given a man space while he sorts out his “issues?”<\/p>\n
How many times has a man told you he’s going to leave his wife because he really wants to be with you? How many times have these\u00a0relationships<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0worked out well for you?<\/p>\n I understand the problem. You meet a guy. You think you connect. He makes you feel amazing, and you so want to believe everything he’s telling you. You give him the time and space he asks for, because everyone needs that space, don’t they?<\/p>\n But here’s the thing\u2026<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n He loves the whole scenario. He loves that you’re giving him the space he wants. He loves that you give him\u00a0sex<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0when he calls you. He loves that you don’t pressure him. He loves it, because it’s exactly what he wants from you.<\/p>\n Even though you sense something isn’t right, you still believe what he says. You spend hours chatting to your friends on a Friday night trying to work out what’s going on. You don’t want him to make a fool of you, but you’re starting to worry about your feelings.<\/p>\n The problem is, you’ve missed the warning signs at the beginning of your relationship. You missed the biggest red flag that this man isn’t going to commit to you. You didn’t put him through the “Boyfriend<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0Test” that all men should have to pass!<\/p>\n What is this test?<\/strong><\/p>\n It’s very simple\u2026<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n You have to see whether this man follows through with all the promises he makes you in the first 30 days after you meet. You see, when a man is pursuing you, he’s in sales mode. He’ll tell you everything he thinks you want to hear, and he’ll make a bundle of promises to you. He wants to make being with him sound like the most incredible thing in the world.<\/p>\n