Are you wondering about\u00a0the best ways to make a man fall in love with you? Aren\u2019t we all?!<\/p>\n
Love makes the world go round and everybody (and I mean everybody)\u00a0wants to be in love.<\/p>\n
But it is possible! Let me help. Here are 5 ways on how to get a guy to like you and fall in love with you:<\/p>\n
1. Be yourself<\/strong><\/p>\n I know. Everyone always tells you how important it is to\u00a0be yourself in any relationship. That\u2019s because it is!<\/p>\n If you want a man to fall in love with you, you have to be you! You can\u2019t try to be someone who he wants you to be or someone who you read about in a magazine.<\/p>\n Even the best actor isn\u2019t truly authentic in their role and if you try to act like you are someone else, your guy will see through it and back away.<\/p>\n And, if he does become attached to the fake you, when he meets the real you, which he will, he will be gone in a flash.<\/p>\n And then you will be left alone with the\u00a0pretend you. Not so fun, eh.<\/p>\n So be you. If your guy can\u2019t fall in love with the real you, then you don\u2019t want him to love you at all. If he can\u2019t see how awesome the real you is, then forget him and find someone who can.<\/p>\n 2. Be mysterious<\/strong><\/p>\n In this era of public sharing of every intimate detail of our lives, it is hard to be mysterious in this world. But it is important to do so when you are out in the dating world.<\/p>\n I am a sharer. I am happy to talk about just about anything\u00a0with\u00a0anyone I meet. People at the dog park, at the grocery store or on the subway. I am happy to share intimate details about myself because I like hearing intimate details about other people as well.<\/p>\n Unfortunately, I learned the hard way that lots of sharing do not work so well in the dating world. The last thing that you want to do on a first date is to share every little detail about yourself.<\/p>\n Yes, your parents are divorced, you fight a lot with your sister, you have had sex with more than a dozen guys, and you are prone to bouts of sadness when the seasons change.<\/p>\n And, while all of those things are real and true, and should definitely be divulged in time, in the beginning, be yourself but also\u00a0share information carefully.<\/p>\n Guys are different from girls and can get scared away by too much sharing. And, while you want a guy who can share, many guys need to get to know their girl well before they are comfortable with that sharing. So don\u2019t put them off by sharing too much too soon.<\/p>\n Also, as I said before,\u00a0guys are hunters and like to stalk their prey. And if he has to ask you questions about yourself to learn more, he will definitely be intrigued.<\/p>\n 3. Be thoughtful about when you have\u00a0sex for the first time<\/strong><\/p>\n Yes. I am sorry. But this is so important. Do not have sex with your guy right away.<\/p>\n In this present day, 2018, I know that\u00a0hooking up is part of the culture. Men and women are equals and we, women should be able to have sex whenever and with whomever we want.<\/p>\n And this\u00a0is<\/em>\u00a0true but, if you want your guy to fall in love with you, waiting is a good idea.<\/p>\n Why? Two reasons.<\/p>\n The first is that, for women, having sex changes everything. Yes, we want to say that we can just hook up and\u00a0not get attached but the reality is i that women become more attached after sex then men do.<\/p>\n There is actually evidence that\u00a0women can get addicted to a man’s smell\u00a0after just one sexual encounter, an addiction that makes them crave more.<\/p>\n The second reason is that\u00a0men are hunters and\u00a0what men are prone to hunt for most consistently is sex.\u00a0When they catch their prey they are more likely than not to go in search of the next conquest.<\/p>\n So, if a man isn\u2019t easily able to catch what he wants, he will be forced to keep working to get it. And the longer he has to work to catch you, the more opportunities will arise for him to get to know you and become attached to you.<\/p>\n So don’t let just\u00a0anyone have you because you are awesome and, to win you,\u00a0someone should have to work hard.<\/p>\n 4.\u00a0Be self-confident<\/strong><\/p>\n There is nothing more attractive to a man than a girl with self-confidence. And there is no-one more able to handle a man than a self-confident girl.<\/p>\n Unfortunately, many of us become insecure wrecks around the men that we are interested in. The opposite sex is such a mystery.\u00a0 We get how our friends\u2019 brains work but can we remotely understand what motivates guys (other than sex)? No. This\u00a0makes us feel clingy\u00a0and insecure when we are with them.<\/p>\n And there is\u00a0nothing<\/em>\u00a0more unattractive to a guy than\u00a0a woman who is insecure and clingy. In fact, if you want to scare your guy away, a little clinginess will be just the thing to do it!<\/p>\n So nip that feeling in the bud.\u00a0You are an amazing, independent woman of the 2010s. You can take on anything that you have set your mind to and make it happen.\u00a0 Go about your life, be with your friends, work hard, do the things that you love. Be a person in the world who can succeed without a man.<\/p>\n Because you can. And\u00a0he needs to see\u00a0that. And when he does watch out! He will be yours before you know it!<\/p>\n 5. Be a girl<\/strong><\/p>\n I know. We are women of the 2010s. We shouldn\u2019t have to be girly to attract a man. They should love us for the strong females that we are.<\/p>\n And, yes, this is true. A self-confident, mysterious hard-to-catch female is definitely attractive to men and worth pursuing.<\/p>\n But,\u00a0men still really love girls who can be girls. A man wants a girl who he can make laugh.\u00a0A girl who needs him. A girl who is willing to receive his gifts and his love. A girl who has an “on” button that he can find.<\/p>\n –<\/p>\n Source: Your Tango<\/p>\n Yes, in this modern world, men and women are equal. But men will always be men and girls will always be girls and their attraction to each other is, in many ways, the way it has always been. Visceral. A man likes to take care of a woman and a woman wants to be taken care of.<\/p>\n So be yourself but\u00a0be a girl too. He will love you for it!<\/p>\n
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