Imagine if you married a guy\u2026but then realised he had bad habits that couldn\u2019t be cured? In this article, Beauty and Tips takes a look at why you need to avoid guys with these 10 habits.<\/p>\n
Prince Charming might have flaws, but he doesn\u2019t have bad habits that can ruin a relationship. While it\u2019s impossible to find the absolute perfect man (we\u2019ve looked, he doesn\u2019t exist) that doesn\u2019t mean you should drop your standards and marry a guy who has annoyingly bad habits. For a man to be marriage material, he has to be completely the right man for\u00a0you<\/i>. Sure, he will still have flaws (don\u2019t we all?), but flaws are different from habits. Habits are things we\u2019ve learned to do over the years; they\u2019re ingrained in our behaviour and we do them automatically. Not only can they annoy you, but it\u2019s also practically impossible to get a man to change his ways. If a guy has some of the following 10 habits? He isn\u2019t marriage material.<\/p>\n
He\u2019s Full Of Excuses<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
He can\u2019t just give you a straight answer for why he let you down, and instead resorts to his Big Book Of Boyfriend Excuses. Each time he makes an excuse, he\u2019s displaying his immaturity to you. Moreover, there is a good chance he\u2019s lying. Excuses are the resort of children \u2013 and you want to marry a man, not a child.<\/p>\n
He\u2019s Narrow Minded<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Guys who are narrow minded really frustrate us, don\u2019t they? We just wish they would be more open to doing something other than watching sports all weekend, and we wish they would stop making snap, judgemental comments about people. Some guys can seem to be the most open-minded people about certain topics, but become closed off when it comes to other topics. And it\u2019s really annoying because it can contaminate your relationship. For example, imagine you want to hang out with a guy friend you haven\u2019t seen for a while. You know what this guy is all about, and you know what his \u201cintentions\u201d are \u2013 to hang out and catch up! Meanwhile, your partner mistrusts him, tells you all guys just want sex from you and won\u2019t let you see him. If your man is still stuck in the 19th century with his close-minded views, he\u2019s hardly worth marrying.<\/p>\n
He Shouts<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Any guy who has a habit of exploding with anger is a no-go as far as Beauty and Tips is concerned. If you\u2019ve met a man who shouts, screams and verbally abuses people, stay well away from him.<\/p>\n
He Breaks Promises<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
If your man casually breaks promises with you all the time, it isn\u2019t a good sign. What this should tell you is that this is a bad habit he\u2019s picked up down the years and is unlikely to change anytime soon. Broken promises are frustrating. If he breaks a promise early on in the relationship, it\u2019s not a huge deal. But if he keeps doing it, you need to take this as the huge red flag that it is. In simple English, he\u2019s disrespecting you and the relationship, and taking you for a fool. It\u2019s a sign that he doesn\u2019t care enough about you (or anyone for that matter) and probably won\u2019t be changing in the foreseeable future. After all, he doesn\u2019t seem to see it as a problem. But as the movies teach us, those who break their promises suck (it\u2019s usually dad\u2019s breaking their promises to their kids, and yes, they suck. And can you imagine what would happen if you guys had kids and he broke his promises to them, too?!)<\/p>\n
He Lies<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Breaking a promise is one thing, but if he brazenly lies to your face and you\u00a0know\u00a0<\/i>it\u2019s a clear lie, it\u2019s a major warning sign that this is a guy you can\u2019t trust. Lying is a bad habit that\u2019s easy to get into and hard to get out of. If you\u2019ve caught your man lying red-handed on more than one occasion, you\u2019ll need to consider the very real possibility that he isn\u2019t worth marrying.<\/p>\n
He Doesn\u2019t Put You First<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
If a man doesn\u2019t put you first, you have to ask yourself the question \u2013\u00a0when\u00a0<\/i>will he put me first? The answer is probably never. Guys who don\u2019t prioritise their women are instead in the habit of prioritising their buddies, their work or their hobbies. Love comes last, and if it\u2019s always been this way in your relationship, there is a good chance that it won\u2019t change.<\/p>\n
He\u2019s Possessive<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
It\u2019s okay for someone to be a tad possessive at first. It\u2019s even kinda cute. But you two have been together a while and he\u2019s still being extra clingy, it\u2019s a habit he\u2019s probably not going to break. In fact, it probably means he\u2019s a control freak. And that kind of man isn\u2019t worth walking down the altar with.<\/p>\n
He Likes To Win Arguments<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
If he gets a smug sense of satisfaction whenever he wins an argument between you guys and literally hates the fact that even once he could be wrong, it\u2019s a bad habit that you should take as a red flag. No one in a relationship should go into an argument wanting to win. Instead, the goal should be a resolution that suits both parties. If your partner always has to be right? He isn\u2019t worth your time.<\/p>\n
He Won\u2019t Take Responsibility<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
When we refuse to acknowledge our mistakes and take for responsibility for something that was OUR fault, we\u2019re behaving like children. Worse still, we\u2019re passing the blame onto someone else. Even worse, we\u2019re not giving ourselves the chance to learn from our mistakes. If this sounds a lot like your man, he isn\u2019t marriage material at this point.<\/p>\n
He Has An Unhealthy Lifestyle<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
If he drinks and smokes too much while you\u2019re trying to lead a healthier life, it\u2019s a strong sign that you guys aren\u2019t meant to be. Sure, he could cut down on his drinking and quit smoking. But if he\u2019s tried in the past to no avail, it might be best if you avoid this kind of guy.<\/p>\n
Stay happy!<\/p>\n
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Source: Beauty and Tips<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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