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There are two types of women: those who have amazing luck in love and those who end up in one romantic disaster after another. It\u2019s not that there\u2019s anything wrong with the latter group, either\u00a0\u2014 they\u2019re smart, independent, and actually really sexy. Turns out, it might be those amazing qualities that are keeping them from finding love. What gives?<\/p>\n

1.\u00a0<\/span>They’re intimidating<\/strong><\/p>\n

Some guys don\u2019t\u00a0know how to handle\u00a0intimidating women, let alone date them. There\u2019s something about them that lead these guys to believe that they\u2019re either bitchy or more intense than they really are. If you ask me, guys like that are just afraid and would rather have a girl they feel that they have more power over. No thanks.<\/p>\n

2.\u00a0<\/span>They’re independent AF and won’t sacrifice that for anyone\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Naturally, some guys are more dominant and protective beings, which tends to play into their ego tremendously. If an insecure guy feels like you don\u2019t need him, then his self-esteem tends to go down. Why this would have anything to do with HIS self-esteem is beyond me, but that\u2019s what happens. Many guys just like the feeling of being needed and depended upon. Independent women are the total opposite, hence the disconnect.<\/p>\n

3. They have built-in jerk repellent\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

By default, these girls can detect remotely any traces of toxic, BS behavior and in return end up scaring guys\u00a0off before they get a chance. Most would consider this a good thing, but sometimes it sends the wrong message to guys who maybe just deserve a second chance and didn\u2019t really mean to slap your ass when you were drunk. It\u2019s a no-tolerance policy with girls like these,\u00a0and it\u2019s for their own protection.<\/p>\n

\u00a04. They call guys out on their BS\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n

You can\u2019t really get anything past these girls\u00a0because they\u2019re always on their game. They can see through any lies and nonsense guys have rolled up their sleeves. It\u2019s a gift, but it often scares off guys in the process, because what guy wants a girl to know absolutely everything\u00a0they\u2019re up to?<\/p>\n

5.\u00a0<\/span>They’re a little weird\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Amazing women always come with a weird side \u2014 that\u2019s pretty much a given. The coolest and most inspiring women have this uniqueness about them that\u2019s sometimes hard to understand, but that\u2019s what makes them so amazing! Some guys have a hard time with girls who march to the beat of their own drum and are a little unpredictable. They don\u2019t know how to act around these girls or how to understand them, but that\u2019s okay, because these women love their own weirdness.\u00a0They don\u2019t need a guy to approve of them, that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n

6. They’re super picky because they know their worth\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0Women who are super picky aren\u2019t judgmental; they just know what they want, and they\u2019re not about to settle for anything or anyone that\u2019s not as amazing as they are. Guys that can keep up, be real, be honest, and love hard are the only kind they\u2019ll accept. If these guys aren\u2019t up to scratch, they don\u2019t stand a chance. No questions asked.<\/p>\n

7. They’re intense\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0Intensity is something that can be taken negatively, and sometimes these women don\u2019t have very much control over it. They\u2019re intense storytellers, intense lovers, and intense in the way they communicate. They don\u2019t have a problem sharing who they are, and it can be overwhelming to guys who are a little more on the conservative side.<\/p>\n

8. <\/span>T<\/span>hey have real goals\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Women who are killing it in life usually have their focus on more important things than finding love, anyway. Their motivation when they wake up in the morning isn\u2019t to match with a hottie on Tinder or land a date where they get a free meal and a few meaningless\u00a0compliments. A truly motivated woman will focus on improving her life with things that actually make a difference, like learning, traveling, and embracing a strong career. If guys aren\u2019t on this level, they can move on.<\/p>\n

9.<\/span>\u00a0They’re more mature than most\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Women who have a strong head, a good attitude, and a poised way of carrying themselves have this admirable maturity about them that\u2019s rare. They don\u2019t gossip, dwell on negativity, or care about what others think of them. They don\u2019t get their worth from guys telling them they\u2019re hot, nor do they need to post fifteen selfies a week to feel good about themselves. They like who they are, and any guy who shows the slightest bit of immaturity will never stand a chance.<\/p>\n

10. They love the hardest\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

These women may be\u00a0intimidating, independent, bold, and strong, but they will always love hard. They\u2019ll take pride in their\u00a0relationship and put everything they have into it, and sometimes it can be overwhelming. Only strong men can handle this kind of love.<\/p>\n

11. They’re actually the ones guys have a hard time finding\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

In reality, guys are the ones who have a hard time finding the amazing girls, because they\u2019re like diamonds in the rough. You can only find them when you look hard and have the same high standards and expectations they do. Once a guy embraces an amazing woman, he\u2019ll never be able to go to another.<\/p>\n

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Source; Bolde.com<\/div>\n
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