Passionate lovemaking originated within the mind of God to bless you and make your life easier.<\/p>\n
To help you accomplish the three purposes for your creation, God designed special hormones of love to be released during frequent, ecstatic lovemaking.<\/p>\n
These hormones help you become more loving toward your mate and children. They promote\u00a0bonding with your companion\u00a0and children. The hormones also calm your nerves and make you more at peace with the world.<\/p>\n
If you’re asking yourself, “Does God want me to have good sex?”, just refer to\u00a0two Bible verses from the books of Genesis and Isaiah.<\/p>\n
Genesis 1:28: “And God blessed them; and God said to them, [1] \u2018Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and [2] subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky, and over every living thing that moves on the earth.\u2019”<\/em><\/p>\n Isaiah 43:7: “Everyone who is called by My name, and [3] whom I have created for My glory, whom I have formed even whom I have made.”<\/em><\/p>\n Indeed,\u00a0having jubilant sex\u00a0helps you serve God and accomplish the three purposes for which he created you, as stated in the Bible verses above:<\/p>\n Understanding the purpose of creation and the role of these hormones provides insights into three reasons God wants you to\u00a0love and enjoy passionate sex:<\/p>\n 1. Frequent lovemaking turns you into a better parent.<\/strong><\/p>\n For over 3000 years in the\u00a0Song of Solomon, God patiently taught us how to choose a lifelong sexual partner. In the true story, a young virgin of Israel must decide if she will marry rich, powerful King Solomon who loves only her body or the poor shepherd who cherishes and values her as a person.<\/p>\n The drama begins as Solomon succumbs to the heat of lust when he spies the beautiful girl working in the vineyards. He courts her over a whirlwind of three days as he repeatedly tells her how beautiful she is.<\/p>\n Instead of accepting his proposal, the maiden asks for time to think. She pleads with the palace virgins not to force her to marry Solomon before they learn to love each other. The story turns when the maiden experiences a wet dream that clears her mind.<\/p>\n She rejects Solomon in a not-so-kind or timid way and leaves to marry her shepherd. She tells her groom:<\/p>\n “Oh that you were like a brother to me The maiden credits their similar loving homes for preparing them for a wonderful\u00a0marriage. They began learning to love at their mother\u2019s breasts. Touching and sucking release hormones that bond the mother and baby while enveloping them in love.<\/p>\n Additionally, her mother instructed her about sex being for women as well as men. The maiden promises to serve the shepherd an aphrodisiac of pomegranate juice to enhance his masculinity. She can hardly wait for their\u00a0marriage\u00a0to engage in passionate lovemaking.<\/p>\n Oprah interviewed Charla Muller about her book\u00a0365 Nights: A Memoir of Intimacy.<\/em>\u00a0She asked Charla how making love every night for a year as a 40th birthday present to her husband affected their two children. She replied that the whole\u00a0family\u00a0became more loving and touching.<\/p>\n Charla\u2019s experience shows how the hormones of frequent love making spill over onto your children, even teenagers. The love in the air between you and your mate surrounds them with affection that brings out the best in them.<\/p>\n (For more information, listen to “Why Women Need Great Sex to Be Wonderful Mothers” in the sidebar at\u00a0Embarrass The Alligator.<\/p>\n 2. Passionate lovemaking helps you earn a living.<\/strong><\/p>\n The word “subdue” in the Genesis creation account means “to make to serve, by force if necessary\u2026\u00a0It assumes that the party being subdued is hostile to the subduer, necessitating some sort of coercion if the subduing is to take place.”<\/p>\n In other words, the earth will resist mankind\u2019s efforts to control and subdue it. Men and women contend with the weather, weeds, insects, and even the hostility and ignorance of other people. Lack of scientific knowledge complicates their efforts.<\/p>\n But God does not command you to work hard to support your\u00a0family\u00a0and then leave you as an unwilling victim of stress, depression, and sleepless nights. He blesses you with his design of\u00a0the hormones of love\u00a0to balance your labor with joy and laughter:<\/p>\n Ecclesiastes 9:9: “Enjoy life with the woman whom you love [sexually or otherwise \u2014 Strong] all the days of your fleeting life which He has given to you under the sun; for this is your reward in life and in your toil in which you have labored under the sun.”<\/em><\/p>\n These hormones reward, refresh, and renew you after working hard to survive on a hostile planet. The more you share these hormones in the arms of your mate, the more you become creative and successful in your work.<\/p>\n 3. Ecstatic lovemaking helps you glorify God.<\/strong><\/p>\n God openly boasts about love making being his proudest, most brilliant accomplishment in the creation:<\/p>\n There are three things which are too wonderful for me, This is not God\u2019s empty locker-room brag. It\u2019s God\u2019s genius\u00a0for husbands and wives to enjoy\u00a0and to help them accomplish his purposes for creating them. Proverbs says the first three things are too wonderful to understand. But four amazing things are hidden from man\u2019s understanding.<\/p>\n Ancient man has always attempted to fly like the eagle. Finally, the Wright Brothers solved the puzzle. Man continues to improve on their initial discovery from airplanes, to rocket ships, to drones.<\/p>\n To scale a mountain, man must strap on cleats and use safety lines. Even then, he can\u2019t go wherever he wants like the agile snake. Many men and women die while\u00a0trying to imitate the serpent.<\/p>\n Matthew Maury said, “If God said paths are in the sea, I\u2019m going to find them” (Psalms 8:8). He spent eighteen years charting the ocean\u2019s currents. Today worldwide commerce and travel depend on them.<\/p>\n The eagle, the snake, and the paths in the sea testify to God\u2019s superior intelligence in creating the world. And mankind seeks to replicate his divine wisdom. But the fourth is the most profound and difficult for man to figure out \u2014 the way of a man with a maid:<\/p>\n It\u2019s more than a male hopping a female\u2019s bones. Animals do that. None can compare to God\u2019s design for a man\u2019s gentle touch to stir up a maid\u2019s emotions and powerful sensations. Together they speak God\u2019s beautiful language of love.<\/p>\n If you don\u2019t cultivate a loving sexual relationship with your spouse, all of life becomes much harder:<\/p>\n God\u2019s love shows in his creation of the hormones of love to relieve you of the burdens of daily living. He preserved a whole book of the Bible, the\u00a0Song of Solomon, to teach you the secrets for a lifetime of passionate lovemaking with your mate. He hopes you\u2019ll choose to love and enjoy passionate sex \u2014 his proudest creation.<\/p>\n What\u2019s your choice?<\/p>\n Patsy Rae Dawson is a Christian\u00a0marriage, sex, and divorce coach. Learn the secret of the vaginal orgasm in her book\u00a0The Song of Solomon Love Triangle:\u00a0God\u2019s Soulmating and Lovemaking Guide for a Lifetime of Passionate Sex. Are you in a sexless\u00a0marriage? Take Patsy\u2019s free\u00a0Sexless Marriages Reflective Survey.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n Watch Dr. Dorree Lynn offer advice if you feel that you have a boring sex life.<\/p>\n –<\/p>\n Source: \u00a0Your Tango<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Passionate lovemaking originated within the mind of God to bless you and make your life easier. To help you accomplish the three purposes for your creation, God designed special hormones of love to be released during frequent, ecstatic lovemaking. These hormones help you become more loving toward your mate and children. 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\nWho nursed at my mother\u2019s breasts.
\nIf I found you outdoors, I would kiss you;
\nNo one would despise me, either.
\n“I would lead you and bring you
\nInto the house of my mother, who used to instruct me;
\nI would give you spiced wine to drink from the juice of my pomegranates.
\n“Let his left hand be under my head
\nAnd his right hand embrace me”\u00a0<\/em>\u2014\u00a0(Song of Solomon 8:1-3)<\/em><\/p>\n
\nFour which I do not understand:
\nThe way of an eagle in the sky,
\nThe way of a serpent on a rock,
\nThe way of a ship in the middle of the sea,
\nAnd the way of a man with a maid.\u00a0<\/em>\u2014 \u00a0(Proverbs 30:18-19).<\/em><\/p>\n
\nIt\u2019s more than a woman moaning and groaning. Prostitutes do that.
\nIt\u2019s more than a vibrator shaking up an orgasm. Laboratory subjects do that.<\/em><\/p>\n\n