{"id":348505,"date":"2017-08-27T17:39:05","date_gmt":"2017-08-27T17:39:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=348505"},"modified":"2017-11-10T14:46:09","modified_gmt":"2017-11-10T14:46:09","slug":"13-lies-people-tell-when-having-an-affair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2017\/08\/13-lies-people-tell-when-having-an-affair\/","title":{"rendered":"13 lies people tell when having an affair"},"content":{"rendered":"
1. \u201cEveryone is doing it\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n No! Not everyone is having an affair. There is a huge percentage of faithful lovers you just choose to ignore that percentage to justify your selfish ways.<\/p>\n 2. \u201cWe\u2019ll use protection\u201d<\/strong> 3. \u201cOne last time\u201d<\/strong> 4. \u201cI will sex you better than your partner\u201d<\/strong> 5. \u201cMy partner is too far and I have needs\u201d<\/strong> 6. \u201cNo one will know\u201d<\/strong> 7. \u201cMy partner and I have problems\u201d<\/strong> 8. \u201cMy partner is cheating\u201d<\/strong> 9. \u201cBlame it on the alcohol\u201d<\/strong> 10. \u201cEvery man must have a side dish\u201d<\/strong> 11. \u201cEvery young lady sleeps around to get on top\u201d<\/strong> 12. \u201cI had no other choice\u201d<\/strong> 13. \u201cThe temptation was too sweet to pass\u201d<\/strong> –<\/p>\n Source: capitalfm<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" 1. \u201cEveryone is doing it\u201d No! Not everyone is having an affair. There is a huge percentage of faithful lovers you just choose to ignore that percentage to justify your selfish ways. 2. \u201cWe\u2019ll use protection\u201d Protection is more than using a condom. Protection is guarding your partner from the pain of your unfaithfulness, guarding […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":348507,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[354],"tags":[10587,10588,355],"yoast_head":"\n
\nProtection is more than using a condom. Protection is guarding your partner from the pain of your unfaithfulness, guarding what is between your legs because it belongs to one alone.<\/p>\n
\nOnly jokers use this line. If you really wanted to stop cheating you would not ask to do the crime one last time. Like any addiction, \u201cOne last time\u201d leads to another \u201cOne last time\u201d<\/p>\n
\nSex is not a competition. If someone comes to rubbish your partner and how boring your sex life is with your partner and bragging about how great his\/ her sex can be; you\u2019d be a fool to fall for that lie. You are with your partner for more than sex, right? If you find your partner boring then work on spicing up your love, not joining hands with an outsider who might sex you good then get tired of you and use the same line on the next fool.<\/p>\n
\nIf you can\u2019t handle a long distance relationship end it. Don\u2019t use it as an excuse cheating on your distant partner who is saving all his\/ her love for you. You can\u2019t have it both ways.<\/p>\n
\nCheating comes out in the open eventually. Even if it won\u2019t your conscience and God will know and your integrity and character will rot away as a consequence.<\/p>\n
\nStop being a coward, an escapist and an opportunist. If you and your partner have issues solve them, don\u2019t hide between an outsider\u2019s legs who doesn\u2019t have your best interest at heart.<\/p>\n
\nImmature people play tit for tat with sex. If your partner is unfaithful confront him\/ her, demand change or walk away. Don\u2019t sin because your partner sins, don\u2019t stoop low because your partner does. You are responsible for you.<\/p>\n
\nAlcohol only brings out what we desire and think. If you end up cheating because you are drunk, the alcohol only fanned your inner evil fire.<\/p>\n
\nNo! Being a man is not thinking with your penis but your mind and heart. Real men don\u2019t view women\u2019s legs as goal posts to score, they don\u2019t view women as sex trophies. Real men are men of honor, they have integrity, loving that one woman and staying true to their vows.<\/p>\n
\nNo University student, no young lady trying to make it in your career; you can excel and rise to the top using your brilliance, talent and brains; not by being on top of men. You are better than this.<\/p>\n
\nYou always have a right and wrong choice; the wrong choice is only easier. Do you have the greatness and guts to do what\u2019s right?<\/p>\n
\nYou will be tempted so many times. There will be that sexy woman or man who catches your attention especially when things are shaky between you and your partner. But every temptation can be defeated. Faithfulness is a choice, to cheat is also a choice.<\/p>\n