{"id":34246,"date":"2014-07-24T13:04:00","date_gmt":"2014-07-24T13:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=34246"},"modified":"2014-07-24T16:34:14","modified_gmt":"2014-07-24T16:34:14","slug":"masturbation-ruins-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2014\/07\/masturbation-ruins-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Masturbation ruins sex!"},"content":{"rendered":"
Do you have secret concerns about masturbation? Do you enjoy solo\u00a0sex<\/a>\u00a0but feel a bit guilty about it, or worry that it will ruin your sex life?<\/p>\n Ever wonder if the way you are masturbating is doing you more harm than good? If so, you are not alone! Masturbation remains a taboo topic of conversation so many of us silently worry about this most personal sexual experience.<\/p>\n As professional sex experts, we get hundreds of emails every week from men and women all around the world. They confide in us their deepest, most intimate secrets and ask for advice about their most private concerns.<\/p>\n We are happy to be their trusted source of information, resources and advice.<\/p>\n Here are the most common questions about masturbation myths \u2014 and the truth behind the myths that will set you free to explore the realm of solo sex!<\/p>\n One of the most persistent masturbation myths is that if you are having great sex, you don’t need to masturbate. Or, if you masturbate too much, you won’t be able to have great sex. Nothing could be further from the truth. A great sex life can include both fabulous masturbation experiences and blissful bedroom journeys with your lover.<\/p>\n For both men and women, masturbation is the ideal way to explore the vast terrain of sexual fantasies and to explore what turns them on and what they might like to explore with their lover. Masturbation is a cornerstone of a happy sex life, and poses no threat to the quality of sex you can have with a partner. The more you have orgasms, the easier orgasms are to have! So don’t hold back, whether or not you are in a relationship, you should shamelessly enjoy the pleasures of solo sex!<\/p>\n Masturbation Myth #2: Masturbation Causes Erectile Dysfunction<\/strong><\/p>\n Some men worry that masturbation is the cause of their erectile dysfunction. They report that erections come easily while masturbating but are much less reliable, or even absent, during partner sex. This is an increasingly common concern, and a very real experience. But masturbation isn’t to blame\u2014 porn is the culprit!<\/p>\n The truth is, masturbation can be a great way for men to learn\u00a0how to last longer in bed<\/a>\u00a0and master ejaculation control. We offer a step-by-step guide for men who want to use masturbation to learn how to stay harder longer. But masturbating with pornography every time can cause what scientists are now calling “porn induced erectile dysfunction” which is effecting even very young men who have become dependent on porn for arousal. Check out the brilliant TEDx talk “The Great Porn Experiment<\/a>” for more on this harrowing trend and how to reverse it!<\/p>\n Masturbation Myth #3: Masturbation Is A Form Of Cheating<\/strong><\/p>\n If you are in a relationship, is it still ok to masturbate? We get this question several times a week over at\u00a0PleasureMechanics.com<\/a>, so it is clear that many people are concerned that masturbation is a form of cheating. We believe that you are an independent sexual being, as is your lover. Your relationship is where you meet in the middle. Masturbation is a positive way to strengthen your own sexuality so you have more to give to your relationship.<\/p>\n You have your libido, and your partner has theirs. It is too much to ask that you will both spontaneously be “in the mood” at the exact same time, every time. So if you find yourself aroused, there is nothing wrong with masturbating as a form of sexual release. If you can’t sleep in the middle of the night, masturbation can be a great way to relax and get your much-needed rest. If you find yourself jealous of your lover’s masturbation, you may have other issues you need to address.<\/p>\n