{"id":339988,"date":"2017-07-27T15:02:15","date_gmt":"2017-07-27T15:02:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=339988"},"modified":"2017-07-27T15:02:15","modified_gmt":"2017-07-27T15:02:15","slug":"5-signs-the-person-youre-dating-is-using-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2017\/07\/5-signs-the-person-youre-dating-is-using-you\/","title":{"rendered":"5 signs the person you’re dating is using you"},"content":{"rendered":"
In an ideal world, a relationship has a lot of give and take. But relationships are rarely ideal \u2014 and being used in a relationship is way more common than we\u2019d like it to be. It normally starts out simply enough, with someone who seems really sensitive and interesting and reflective and \u2018not like everyone else\u2019. You know the one, right? And yet before you know it, once they make you feel comfortable, you\u2019re being totally ignored.\u00a0It\u2019s happened to the best of us.<\/p>\n
While it often sneaks up on us, we all know what being used looks like on someone else. \u201cI think the signs that you are being used are actually pretty clear,\u201d relationship therapist\u00a0Aimee Hartstein\u00a0tells UK Cosmo. So the key is to know the signs and make sure that we\u2019re being honest with ourselves about what\u2019s actually going on in our relationship. No matter how difficult it is to a admit. Here\u2019s what you need to look out for.<\/p>\n
1. You\u2019re making excuses for being treated badly<\/strong><\/p>\n Are you always explaining to your friends that your partner is just tired or stressed \u2014 saying that\u2019s why they\u2019re being rude to you or not making the effort? That\u2019s a huge sign. \u201cThe basic yardstick for telling whether you are being used or not is to take a good look at how you are being treated,\u201d Aimee says. \u201c…if you find that they are disrespectful, don\u2019t treat you well, and you don\u2019t feel good with the person then chances are you might be being used.\u201d<\/p>\n