{"id":32815,"date":"2014-07-18T14:23:49","date_gmt":"2014-07-18T14:23:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=32815"},"modified":"2014-07-18T09:29:17","modified_gmt":"2014-07-18T09:29:17","slug":"how-to-be-sexy-without-having-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2014\/07\/how-to-be-sexy-without-having-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"How to be sexy without having sex"},"content":{"rendered":"
Men are very attracted to feminine women who are comfortable with their sexuality and know how to express it.<\/p>\n
This doesn’t mean that you need to be overtly sexual or have\u00a0sex<\/a>\u00a0on the first date. It does mean that you will take a risk and steer the conversation into sexy territory now and then.<\/p>\n Most women don’t know how to embrace their sexual power, and probably very few are comfortable with it. We’re afraid that if we open that door too soon, it might lead us to have sex right away and sabotage the relationship.<\/p>\n Unfortunately, if you keep holding back, there’s a good chance that nothing will happen, no spark, no chemistry \u2014 nothing! A lot of women want to sit back and leave everything up to a man, but I can assure you that smart, sexy, confident women are not afraid to create a spark or fan the flame.<\/p>\n You need to take a risk or you will continue to feel increasingly hopeless after every date.<\/p>\n I get how hard it is to be sexy without it leading to sex. In my own experience, after going on far too many dead end dates, I realized that the reason I hated\u00a0dating<\/a>\u00a0so much was that I was extremely uncomfortable around men.<\/p>\n The only thing I was sure they wanted from me was sex. So, I did one of two things: either I shut down and pulled away or I wound up going to bed with them.<\/p>\n This took all the fun out of dating. I was afraid to flirt and be playful because I didn’t trust myself not to sleep with my dates. I knew that I needed to learn how to feel sexy and express my sexuality without\u00a0having sex<\/a>.<\/p>\n I discovered that there were many ways to express my sexuality. Here are some suggestions:<\/p>\n As women, we sometimes think that just because we wore something sexy, a man will know we’re interested. This isn’t true. Many men \u2014 especially those who are not players \u2014 need feedback and encouragement from women before they make a move. You could be the hottest woman in the world, but if you are afraid to be openly playful and sexual with your dates, you might never start the fire.<\/p>\n Source: Yourtango.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Men are very attracted to feminine women who are comfortable with their sexuality and know how to express it. This doesn’t mean that you need to be overtly sexual or have\u00a0sex\u00a0on the first date. It does mean that you will take a risk and steer the conversation into sexy territory now and then. Most women […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":32817,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[51],"yoast_head":"\n\n