{"id":326234,"date":"2017-06-07T14:07:41","date_gmt":"2017-06-07T14:07:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=326234"},"modified":"2017-06-07T14:07:41","modified_gmt":"2017-06-07T14:07:41","slug":"9-signs-youre-not-radically-accepting-him","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2017\/06\/9-signs-youre-not-radically-accepting-him\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Signs you’re not radically accepting him"},"content":{"rendered":"
Your need to push him or her to the edge is a love crusher.<\/strong><\/p>\n As Andrea Miller describes in her book Radical Acceptance<\/em>, radically accepting your partner isn\u2019t always easy, but it is worth it. Radically accepting this person for who he or she is; radically accepting yourself for who you are; recognizing when your own junk and baggage are creeping into your relationship; recognizing when your desires and needs are projected onto your partner; forgetting that he or she has his or her own unique desires and needs; recognizing when you are getting in the way of your own happiness with your partner; acceptance of yourself and your partner\u00a0\u2014 \u00a0this is what love takes.<\/p>\n Here are 9 signs you\u2019re not practicing radical acceptance with your partner.<\/p>\n 1. You push them.<\/strong><\/p>\n