When you marry someone, you marry more than the person, you marry\u2026<\/p>\n
1. \u201cThe person\u2019s growth\u201d<\/strong> 2. \u201cThe person\u2019s family\u201d<\/strong> 3. \u201cThe person\u2019s faith\u201d<\/strong> 4. \u201cThe person\u2019s weaknesses\u201d<\/strong> 5. \u201cThe person\u2019s body\u201d<\/strong> 6. \u201cThe person\u2019s friends\u201d<\/strong> 7. \u201cThe person\u2019s blessings\u201d<\/strong> 8. \u201cThe person\u2019s micro-climate\u201d<\/strong> 9. \u201cThe person\u2019s future uncertainties\u201d<\/strong> 10. \u201cThe person\u2019s help and support\u201d<\/strong> 11. \u201cThe person\u2019s issues\u201d<\/strong> 12. \u201cThe person\u2019s fights\u201d<\/strong> 13. \u201cThe person\u2019s past\u201d<\/strong> 14. \u201cThe person\u2019s dreams and ambitions\u201d<\/strong> 15. \u201cThe person\u2019s finances or lack there of\u201d<\/strong> Be aware of all this as you marry, because the choice of who you marry affects your entire life. Be aware that when someone chooses to marry you, it is a big deal because he\/she is taking you as you are and the whole package you come with!<\/p>\n –<\/p>\n Source: Capitalfm<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" When you marry someone, you marry more than the person, you marry\u2026 1. \u201cThe person\u2019s growth\u201d All the growth your chosen partner has gone through, all the growth your chosen partner will attain, you benefit from it. 2. \u201cThe person\u2019s family\u201d Whether your chosen partner comes from a good or bad family, you will have […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[354],"tags":[353],"yoast_head":"\n
\nAll the growth your chosen partner has gone through, all the growth your chosen partner will attain, you benefit from it.<\/p>\n
\nWhether your chosen partner comes from a good or bad family, you will have to get used to your in-laws.<\/p>\n
\nThe spiritual faith or lack of it is a powerful and personal choice that affects how your chosen partner lives and makes decisions. You may be in love but when excitement of love simmers down, whether your chosen partner has no faith, a different faith from you or the same faith as you, be prepared because your chosen partner and you will be guided by how you worship or don\u2019t worship God.<\/p>\n
\nWhatever weaknesses and flaws your chosen person has, you will live with them all your life. Some weaknesses will present an opportunity for you to make your chosen partner to become better, as you improve each other, your love grows.<\/p>\n
\nWhichever body your chosen partner has and whatever happens to it, that is the body you are to be faithful to. If she has a big bum or small, perky boobs or big ones; if he has a built up body or a lean one; if her body orgasms quickly, squirts or not or he has a big or small tool for the action; whatever illness may befall on that body; whatever improvements better eating, good genes, good physical health and work out may bring; however that body ages; whatever marks the body gets; that is the body you are to love till death.<\/p>\n
\nThe friends of your chosen partner will have to become your friends. In order for things between you two to be smooth, you\u2019ll need to know or know about those friends. Be aware that those friends will have an influence on your chosen partner and effectively, your marriage.<\/p>\n
\nWhatever blessings that your chosen partner received before you and will receive while with you, they become your blessings too. If your chosen partner had children before you, they become your children and a part of you. When someone blesses your chosen partner, they bless you too; if your chosen partner is a good person who attracts blessings, blessings will follow your marriage.<\/p>\n
\nEveryone has a micro-climate; the vibe we give wherever we go. For some, they are toxic and draining; others are positive and warm. Whatever temperaments, attitude, character or personality your chosen partner has; that is what will influence the climate in the home you will have together; that is the climate you will be coming home to everyday.<\/p>\n
\nHowever the future will turn and however the turn of events will positively or negatively affect your chosen partner, you must remain committed to your marriage- for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do you part. Life is dynamic, things change, ups and downs; but your love should be constant and unwavering.<\/p>\n
\nIf your chosen partner is a giver, a pillar of strength; throughout your marriage, you will have someone beside you, a true friend.<\/p>\n
\nWhatever issues your chosen partner has; be they short tempered issues, insecurity issues, impatience issues, low self esteem issues, trust issues, issues brought about by life; you will have to learn to love your chosen partner despite them and through them; that is what love does.<\/p>\n
\nWhatever and whoever will attack your chosen partner will also be attacking you.<\/p>\n
\nWhatever past your chosen partner lived through before you came; whether it\u2019s consequence good or bad still lingers, you have to accept it. Whatever the past, it has an impact on why your chosen partner will act in some ways, it will shape your chosen partner\u2019s perspective and outlook of life. A good or bad past shouldn\u2019t affect the quality or intensity of your love.<\/p>\n
\nMost likely, your chosen partner will keep pursuing his or her dreams, be ready to support even if you don\u2019t understand much, be flexible and accommodating because sacrifices will have to be made. Your chosen partner\u2019s success will become your success, his\/her failure will also be yours.<\/p>\n
\nIf your chosen partner is wealthy, that wealth will be added to yours; if your chosen partner has little, share yours, invest in him\/her. Whether you both have much or little you can grow wealthy together, whether you both go bankrupt you can pick yourselves up, whether one of you gets retrenched or loses income, you can find prosperity together. Don\u2019t marry for money, marry for love and commitment; true love is hard to find, but wealth can be easily got when you work together and apply the right principles.<\/p>\n