{"id":24616,"date":"2014-06-13T12:15:57","date_gmt":"2014-06-13T12:15:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=24616"},"modified":"2014-06-13T15:29:44","modified_gmt":"2014-06-13T15:29:44","slug":"why-you-should-delay-sex-if-you-want-a-real-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2014\/06\/why-you-should-delay-sex-if-you-want-a-real-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Why you should delay sex if you want a real relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"

Premature sex creates an imaginary bond that isn\u2019t strong enough to sustain a long-term relationship<\/p>\n

A promising relationship can be derailed when people have premature\u00a0sex<\/a>\u00a0before getting to know each other and learning if they are truly compatible. Premature sex rushes things and creates an imaginary bond that isn\u2019t strong enough to sustain a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n

Premature Sex = Lust<\/strong><\/p>\n

Having sex<\/a>\u00a0early on gives a man very little incentive to get to know who you are. When a man doesn\u2019t know who you are, the sex he has with you is based on lust (i.e. physical gratification), instead of a real like or\u00a0love<\/a>\u00a0(i.e. deep emotional connection).<\/p>\n

A woman tends to feel an emotional connection after having sex, even when she doesn\u2019t really know who the man is. If the sex is amazing, oxytocin will trick you into thinking you\u2019re compatible, even if he isn\u2019t the right man for you. You\u2019ll tend to fall for him soon after based on the illusion of who you think he is.\u00a0As you continue to have sex, your feelings become stronger and you feel more connected to him. You may even think you love him, when you actually lust for him.<\/p>\n

Easy Come, Easy Go<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sexual encounters that are premature lead to short-term or on-again, off-again\u00a0relationships<\/a>\u00a0that are about\u00a0hanging out and hooking up<\/a>. A man who sleeps with a woman who is quick to sleep with him, doesn’t think of this woman as someone to settle down with. His perception of an “easy woman” is easy come, easy go. She\u2019s fine to sleep with, but isn\u2019t marriage material.<\/p>\n

If you find yourself having sex with a man early on, even if you tell him you don\u2019t usually sleep with a man so soon, he won’t believe you because your actions show otherwise.<\/p>\n

Take a Hiatus from Sex<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you want a real relationship with a man you really like and have been sleeping with him early on, stop having sex to see if you are both compatible. Taking a hiatus from sex will also show you if he is interested in the real you or just wants you for sex. A man who is only looking for sex will have no interest in getting to know you and will soon leave. While this may initially be hurtful, it’s best to know sooner than later.<\/p>\n

A man who wants a genuine relationship will respect your wishes of taking a hiatus from sex until you get to know each other. He may not be happy about it, but he will deal with it. Learn what’s most important to him, what his values are, what his family is like, how he treats others, what he thinks about different topics, how he views the world, etc. Let him get to know you too.<\/p>\n

Taking the time to learn about each other will reveal how compatible you are outside of the bedroom. If you’re both connected on a mind, body and soul level, this increases the possibility for your connection to turn into a lasting relationship.<\/p>\n

The Bottom Line<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you want to be in a long-term relationship, delay sex until you both feel a connection on a mind, body and soul level. In doing so, you are\u00a0knowing your worth<\/a>\u00a0by placing a higher value on yourself. As a result, you’ll\u00a0attract a higher quality man who treats you with the love and respect you deserve<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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Source: Yourtango.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Premature sex creates an imaginary bond that isn\u2019t strong enough to sustain a long-term relationship A promising relationship can be derailed when people have premature\u00a0sex\u00a0before getting to know each other and learning if they are truly compatible. Premature sex rushes things and creates an imaginary bond that isn\u2019t strong enough to sustain a long-term relationship. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":24618,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[51],"yoast_head":"\nWhy you should delay sex if you want a real relationship - Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. 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