Ladies, I think you are amazing \u2013 don\u2019t get me wrong, but understanding you is on par with understanding a lecture about Quantum Physics that is being given by a drunk man speaking a foreign language.<\/p>\n
Guys, until mind reading technology is developed (or you get electrocuted like Mel Gibson in What Women Want), \u00a0you\u2019re going to need to know some simple things that your lady secretly wants you to know, but won\u2019t tell you.<\/p>\n
1. Have a backbone<\/strong><\/p>\n Women don\u2019t want a doormat that they can walk all over. It might be easier to be a \u201cyes\u201d man, but your lady secretly doesn\u2019t like that. I\u2019m not saying that you need to go full-blown caveman on her and drag her around by her hair, but have a spine. Women like a little challenge, just as much as we do. When you find yourself in a relationship with the right person, being away from them is the last thing you want to do. Spending every waking moment with your significant other is great in the beginning of a relationship, but as you go on \u2013 it becomes smothering. Women want you to spend time with your buddies, not just because it\u2019s a good thing for you to have your own friends, but because she\u2019s probably tired of your face. Give her some air. Besides, absence makes the heart grow fonder. You\u2019ve got to let her miss you.<\/p>\n 3. Remind her that you love her<\/strong><\/p>\n Women love affirmations that they are YOURS. I\u2019m not talking about a simple \u201cI love you\u201d every day, but real, honest reminders that she is your lady. We all have that instinctual fear of being replaced by someone \u201cbetter\u201d than us. Reminding her that there is no one else for you but her is one way to ease her anxiety, and in the long run \u2013 makes her more comfortable with you. Be honest with her, and with yourself. Don\u2019t be afraid to be goofy, women find it endearing. This is all about effort, because is you don\u2019t put it forward, it\u2019s not going to happen. Chivalry is far from dead, we\u2019ve just gotten lazy. The simple act of opening a door shows her that you are still her knight in shining armor.<\/p>\n 4. Know that she is faking<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019m not talking about orgasms here, I\u2019m talking about every day things. \u201cSure honey, I\u2019d love to watch this TV show about guys who build cars.\u201d Relationships are all about compromise, and women tend to do more of it than men. Women have a tendency to play to our egos, and there isn\u2019t much we can do about it. The only real way to find out what she really thinks is to talk to her. You might not like the answer, so be prepared to take that shot to your pride, but if you want her to be happy, ask her how she really feels.<\/p>\n 5.It is possible to be a bad boy and a good man<\/strong><\/p>\n We all know that the bad boy appeal is a huge turn on for women. Having a wild side is fine in some circumstances, but in the end \u2013 women want substance. Things like being able to be the life of the party, and still do something sweet to show her you care. Being a good man is more than just being sweet and caring, it is being protective, strong, and being a good provider. Maybe it\u2019s time to hang up the party suit, and put on the business suit? The more complete of a package you can be, the more she\u2019ll know that you are irreplaceable. We\u2019ve all been there: tapping our foot, glancing at our watches, and hearing \u201cJust 5 more minutes, babe\u201d. The truth is, that extra time she uses to get ready isn\u2019t for you \u2013 so don\u2019t take it personally. She\u2019s dolling her self up for HER, not for you. It\u2019s easy for us men to say \u201cbut, I think you\u2019re beautiful just the way you are\u201d, which is sweet \u2013 but it\u2019s all about how she feels. Be patient, and be grateful that you get to hit the town with a beautiful, confident woman.<\/p>\n 7. Shut up and listen<\/strong><\/p>\n Listening to your woman is the most important thing you can do for a relationship. I don\u2019t mean just hearing her, I mean actually listening to her. Women are way more intuitive than men are in most cases, so read between the lines. She may be trying to tell you something more important that what she is talking about, and if you don\u2019t LISTEN to her, you\u2019ll miss it. Women communicate way differently than men do, so keep that in mind. What may take you 10 words to say, takes her 30. Knowing how your lady feels makes everything you do in a relationship that much better.<\/p>\n –<\/p>\n Source: Unisoultheory.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ladies, I think you are amazing \u2013 don\u2019t get me wrong, but understanding you is on par with understanding a lecture about Quantum Physics that is being given by a drunk man speaking a foreign language. Guys, until mind reading technology is developed (or you get electrocuted like Mel Gibson in What Women Want), \u00a0you\u2019re […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":212890,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[354],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n
\n2.Spend time with your buddies<\/strong><\/p>\n
\n6. She’s not dressing up for you<\/strong><\/p>\n