According to the laws of nature, guys are supposed to make the first move. It\u2019s common etiquette, right?<\/p>\n
These days, though, the onus is more and more on the lady to make the first move. After all, we\u2019re fiercely independent and have our own minds and will, so why shouldn\u2019t we make the first move on a guy who\u2019s a total hunk?<\/p>\n
Waiting is all well and good, but it\u2019s way too passive for the 21st century. If you want a guy, you\u2019re going to have to go out there and get him.<\/p>\n
The best thing is that men love it when you make the first move! Just in case you\u2019re a little unsure of yourself and need help with your technique, let\u2019s take a look at 10 tips to help you make the first move on a guy.<\/p>\n
One of the reasons women shy away from making the first move is because they convince themselves that doing so makes them seem desperate. This is all to do with the idea that a man can have as many girlfriends as he wants, but a girl can\u2019t go through an equal amount of boyfriends. If she does, she\u2019s basically a word that we can\u2019t print here!<\/p>\n
Making the move takes a lot of boldness. It takes courage. If you\u2019re going to walk over to him, do it with a brazenness that catches his attention. Ask him if he wants a beer and offer to buy it for him. He\u2019ll love it.<\/p>\n
Okay, we know you\u2019re now the bold, confident, independent woman who is ready to make the first move. But this doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t get his attention by creating a scenario.<\/p>\n
By putting yourself in a situation where you need his help, you can call him up and he\u2019ll come round to help you out! You could say that you need help with loading some boxes, fixing your car, or mending a leak. He\u2019ll pop by like a true hero, and you\u2019ll be indebted to him. Time for some romance!<\/p>\n
Be careful not to say that you need help washing the dishes. That will not impress him.<\/p>\n
You probably heard in the past that flirting works and you should try it but you might not have been told that flirting really works and you definitely should try it.<\/p>\n
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Guys love to flirt. In fact, they probably love to flirt more than we do. The great thing about flirting is that you can do it from a distance; for example, you could send him flirty messages on Facebook or post songs to his wall.<\/p>\n
In person, smile when you\u2019re in his company and lightly touch his arm. Don\u2019t be aggressive, but be playful.<\/p>\n
Be Direct<\/b><\/p>\n
Flirting is all well and good, but eventually you do need to be more direct. Guys know when you\u2019re flirting with them, but they don\u2019t always cotton on that you\u2019re really into them. Sometimes they assume that you\u2019re just having a giggle for kicks!<\/p>\n
There is nothing wrong with being direct. It saves time and it helps to clear up any misunderstandings. The guy might be sitting at home thinking \u201cShe loves me She loves me not,\u201d so let him know your feelings when you make that first move.<\/p>\n
Look Him In The Eyes<\/b><\/p>\n
No, you\u2019re not trying to turn him into stone; by looking him in the eyes, you\u2019re showing him that you\u2019re listening and that you\u2019re interested.<\/p>\n
Looking at someone in the eyes when you\u2019re having a conversation with them is incredibly powerful. It shows that you\u2019re confident in who you are and that you\u2019re quite taken with them. Sometimes it can even convince the guy that you\u2019re totally spellbound by him!<\/p>\n
Check To See If He\u2019s Single<\/b><\/p>\n
Okay, before you make that all-important first move, you need to make sure he\u2019s single first. This isn\u2019t always easy to do, because no guy walks around with a hangdog expression and a big stamp on his forehead that says \u201cSINGLE GUY HERE\u201d.<\/p>\n
That would be plain embarrassing!<\/p>\n
You could find out if he\u2019s single or not by being really clever with your conversation. Have a laugh with him before saying that his girlfriend is one lucky woman.<\/p>\n
Watch A \u2018Scary\u2019 Movie Together<\/b><\/p>\n
Ask him if he wants to have a movie night as friends and then slip on a really \u2018scary\u2019 movie, not necessarily a horror, just an action movie will do. This will give you the opportunity to cuddle up to him, giving him the chance to protect you by putting his arm around you.<\/p>\n
Watching a \u2018scary\u2019\u00a0film with him will put you both through a tumult of emotions, and often presents a chance to get closer to the guy you\u2019re smitten with.<\/p>\n
And if he gets really scared, well, you\u2019ll just have to put your arms around him!<\/p>\n
Get A Spare Ticket<\/b><\/p>\n
Find out what he\u2019s really into and buy two tickets for something you\u2019d know he\u2019d love. It could be a game, a concert, or anything else you can think of.<\/p>\n
Then call him up and say that you\u2019ve got a spare ticket because a friend has let you down. Does he want to come?<\/p>\n
Hell yeah!<\/p>\n
This will show him that you both have the same interests, and it gives you a great chance to get to know each other.<\/p>\n
Show Interest<\/b><\/p>\n
You absolutely must show that you\u2019re interested in what he\u2019s talking about, as well as his hobbies and passions. If you play with your hair and check your phone all the time, you\u2019re not making any move whatsoever.<\/p>\n
Give him your undivided attention, ask questions and get involved with what he\u2019s saying.<\/p>\n
Drop A Hint<\/b><\/p>\n
Okay, if the dude is seriously just not getting it, it\u2019s time to drop that mega hint that you\u2019re interested.<\/p>\n
\u201cHave you heard about the new Will Smith movie? I\u2019ve been dying to see it but all my friends can\u2019t stand him.\u201d<\/p>\n
This will open up the opportunity for him to invite you to see it with him.<\/p>\n
Unless he\u2019s a Will Smith hater. In which case, honey, you\u2019re better off without him.<\/p>\n
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Source: Beauty and Tips<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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