Misunderstandings are the biggest problem in most relationships. Sometimes it can be solved easily, you just don\u2019t know what it is exactly. It could be that she doesn\u2019t feel loved. When you love someone, you can easily take it for granted. But love is not something to think lightly about. It\u2019s one of the most important things in life, because every other aspect is touched by it.<\/p>\n
But how do you show it? It may not come easy to everyone. Appreciating a person can be done in many ways. So I will help you on your way. Here are 50 ways to show her you really do love her!<\/p>\n
1. Talk respectfully.<\/strong> Don\u2019t make her feel like she is less important.<\/p>\n 2.<\/strong> Listen to her.<\/strong> Not just to the words she\u2019s saying but to the feeling she tries to express.<\/p>\n 3.<\/strong> Compliment her.<\/strong> Be specific, so she knows you really mean it.<\/p>\n 4.<\/strong> Try to show interest in things she enjoys.<\/strong> Does she like cooking? Help her! Does she like sports? Play it with her! Does she like art? Watch it with her!<\/p>\n 5.<\/strong> Consider her opinion before making a decision.<\/strong> Ask her what she thinks and honestly consider it.<\/p>\n 6.<\/strong> Be forgiving.<\/strong> There is no better way to love someone than to openly forgive and forget. Holding a grudge will not improve your relationship.<\/p>\n 7.<\/strong> Plan a small trip.<\/strong> Take her to a place where you can spend quality time.<\/p>\n 8.<\/strong> Set goals together.<\/strong> If you know from each other what you are working toward, it is easier to support each other. Also, having goals together will bring you closer.<\/p>\n 9. Admit your mistakes.<\/strong> Being open and honest, showing that you too are imperfect will make her feel closer to you.<\/p>\n 10. Have her back.<\/strong> If you get in a situation where you have to choose between your wife and others, choose her. Especially when it is a situation with your family. She already feels like she took you away from them, she needs to feel that you don\u2019t hold that against her.<\/p>\n 11.<\/strong> Give her a mini massage, like a backrub.<\/strong> Who doesn\u2019t enjoy attention like that?<\/p>\n 12.<\/strong> If she\u2019s not feeling well, even just a headache, make sure you help her out as much as possible.<\/strong> She takes care of you all the time, so show her you appreciate that by taking care of her.<\/p>\n 13.<\/strong> When she asks you to help out with something, don\u2019t respond annoyed.<\/strong> Show her you don\u2019t mind giving a hand. She doesn\u2019t enjoy everything she needs to do either, but someone has to do it.<\/p>\n 14. When you discus a serious subject, don\u2019t go off joking around.<\/strong>Peacefully listen and talk.<\/p>\n 15. When having a conversation, look her in the eye.<\/strong> Show her that you are listening. Don\u2019t get distracted.<\/p>\n 16.<\/strong> Spend as much\u00a0time as possible with her.<\/strong> She wants to feel like she is the most important person in the world to you. Spending time is the number one thing you do with the number one person in your life.<\/p>\n 17.<\/strong> Put effort into looking good.<\/strong> Workout, shave, shower, put on some deodorant. Whatever makes her feel attracted to you, do it.<\/p>\n 18.<\/strong> Help out around the house, without special recognition!<\/strong> You don\u2019t have to brag about doing something that she does every day.<\/p>\n 19. Be supportive<\/strong>. When she shows that something she wants to do means a lot to her, support her. I wanted to be a writer and told my husband, and see where I am today, writing!<\/p>\n 20. If she says something is bothering her, don\u2019t ignore it.<\/strong> Talk about it. Small things that stay on your mind, will grow into big things that are hard to solve.<\/p>\n 21.<\/strong> Work on yourself.<\/strong> Everyone changes over time. When she mentions some behavior that she doesn\u2019t appreciate, show her you are trying to improve on it.<\/p>\n 22.<\/strong> Surprise her.<\/strong> Give her a lovely card or letter. Show up with flowers. Buy her that bracelet she wanted. Anything small is good. Surprises are what keep your relationship alive.<\/p>\n 23.<\/strong> When in a relaxed state, make her comfortable.<\/strong> For example, when watching tv, sit close and cuddle her or hold her hand.<\/p>\n 24.<\/strong> Let her know you think of her when you are not together, by texting or calling.<\/strong><\/p>\n 25.<\/strong> Be pro-active.<\/strong> If she notices that you are trying the best you can at all times, she will respect you for that.<\/p>\n 26.<\/strong> Show affection in public.<\/strong> Hold her hand, give her a kiss, hug her. Don\u2019t be ashamed or afraid to show her you love her, even when people can see it.<\/p>\n 27.<\/strong> Are you going to be later than expected?<\/strong> Let her know! She won\u2019t feel important if you won\u2019t even let her know that you\u2019re late.<\/p>\n 28.<\/strong> Ask her what she\u2019s insecure about.<\/strong> If you want to be the hero who helps her out, you should have an idea what\u2019s she\u2019s afraid of. There are a lot of unstable factors in life, so maybe you can help her with things like a job, place to live or even just letting her know she is important.<\/p>\n 29.<\/strong> Refuse to compare her to others.<\/strong> She is your number one! Why even start to compare? She has to be the only one you care about.<\/p>\n 30.<\/strong> When you started to fall in love, you were dating.<\/strong> Why change what\u2019s good? Take her out on dates to stay in love!<\/p>\n 31.<\/strong> She probably makes dinner for you every night\u2026<\/strong> Why not let her relax while you clean up afterwards? Or better, make dinner once in a while.<\/p>\n 32.<\/strong> If she\u2019s feeling discouraged or hurt, hold her and tell her you love and care for her.<\/strong> She just needs to feel you are there for her at the times she needs you the most.<\/p>\n 33.<\/strong> Brag about her.<\/strong> When she\u2019s around, and when she\u2019s not around. Brag about her always. Too many people talk negatively. You chose her, so brag about her.<\/p>\n 34.<\/strong> Let her be free to say what\u2019s on her mind.<\/strong> When she speaks from the heart, don\u2019t tell her her feelings aren\u2019t important or dumb.<\/p>\n 35.<\/strong> Explore who she is.<\/strong> Try to know more about her. Talk about every subject you can think about. See what her viewpoint is on the deeper things in life. Ask as many questions as you can come up with.<\/p>\n 36.<\/strong> Don\u2019t make her feel guilty.<\/strong> Don\u2019t put your problems on her. If you have a problem, talk about it patiently.<\/p>\n 37.<\/strong> Make her something.<\/strong> Don\u2019t just buy gifts, create them. Maybe you can make a journal about your relationship, noting down all the important things that happened and adding little memories to cherish.<\/p>\n 38.<\/strong> Take pictures with her.<\/strong> Girls take a lot of pictures but they don\u2019t have the same meaning as when you do it. Try to make a picture every time you\u2019re together, even when it\u2019s just relaxing on the couch.<\/p>\n 39.<\/strong> When you\u2019re around each other a lot, you have to deal with a lot of serious matters.<\/strong> Try to add in a little bit of fun by making a joke or tickling her. (Know when to stop, because you don\u2019t want to annoy her.)<\/p>\n 40.<\/strong> Call her cute names.<\/strong> You don\u2019t want to sound like a businessman by just useing her name. But always using the same nickname can also get boring, so mix it up.<\/p>\n 41.<\/strong> Be strong enough to let her help you.<\/strong> When it comes to emotional things, men aren\u2019t usually the best. Let her help you. It\u2019ll show trust and love.<\/p>\n 42.<\/strong> Don\u2019t give love to expect it back.<\/strong> Don\u2019t show her you care, just to get it back. Give freely.<\/p>\n 43.<\/strong> Don\u2019t see her as weak, but as precious.<\/strong> Women are simply more emotional than men. But that is not weak. She has to be the most important thing in your life. How can she be important if you look down on her? She is precious.<\/p>\n 44.<\/strong> Don\u2019t just appreciate how she looks, also love her personality.<\/strong> If she knows you appreciate her for who she is and not just what she looks like, she will feel more love and appreciate you more.<\/p>\n 45.<\/strong> Realize that she is like a gift.<\/strong> Every day of your life with her you should remember that she\u2019s a gift in your life. You could be alone, taking care of yourself, but instead she\u2019s there to take care of you. Don\u2019t take her for granted.<\/p>\n 46.<\/strong> Do what you say.<\/strong> When you agree on something, follow through. It may not be the easiest for you, but really do the best you can to do as you agreed on.<\/p>\n 47.<\/strong> Celebrate accomplishments.<\/strong> Don\u2019t say \u2018cool\u2019 and keep on living life. If she did something she\u2019s proud of or you\u2019re proud of, let her know. Get a bottle of wine or get a little something to celebrate.<\/p>\n 48.<\/strong> Find out what she likes in bed and do that.<\/strong><\/p>\n 49.<\/strong> Leave little notes around the house, with sweet messages, so every time she enters a room or uses a different appliance around the house, she has a little surprise.<\/strong> (I got this tip from my husband, who did this when I was feeling down. Made me feel amazing!)<\/p>\n And\u2026<\/p>\n 50.<\/strong> Tell her you love her!<\/strong> You can never say it often enough. Keep reminding her every day, hour, minute, that you love her!<\/p>\n –<\/p>\n Source: Life Hack<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Misunderstandings are the biggest problem in most relationships. Sometimes it can be solved easily, you just don\u2019t know what it is exactly. It could be that she doesn\u2019t feel loved. When you love someone, you can easily take it for granted. But love is not something to think lightly about. 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