{"id":192514,"date":"2016-02-23T07:11:59","date_gmt":"2016-02-23T07:11:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=192514"},"modified":"2016-02-23T07:11:59","modified_gmt":"2016-02-23T07:11:59","slug":"10-signs-that-you-are-not-the-only-woman-in-his-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2016\/02\/10-signs-that-you-are-not-the-only-woman-in-his-life\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Signs that you are not the only woman in his life"},"content":{"rendered":"

We\u2019d all like to be the only woman in the man of our dream\u2019s life. We\u2019d all like to enjoy our relationship without the niggling worry that we might not actually be the only woman.<\/p>\n

A lot of the time it sounds ridiculous to even entertain the idea that our man might be juggling us with someone else.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, sometimes he is; sometimes we fall into the trap set by a player who has juggled women and relationships before. If you\u2019re worried that you aren\u2019t the only girl who has stolen your man\u2019s heart, let\u2019s take a look at the top 10 signs that you are not the only girl in his life.<\/p>\n

He Doesn\u2019t Like Committing To Plans In Advance<\/strong><\/p>\n

Each time you suggest doing something or going somewhere, he gives you a maybe answer.<\/p>\n

\u201cHey! Do you fancy going to the cinema next Friday?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cMaybe.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHey! Do you fancy going to the ball game next Monday?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cMaybe.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cHey! Do you want to come shopping with me on Saturday? I\u2019ll make it fun!\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cPossibly.\u201d<\/p>\n

If you press him, it\u2019s likely that he doesn\u2019t even have an excuse why he can\u2019t commit to a date. He\u2019s just \u201cnot sure\u201d and \u201ccan\u2019t remember\u201d when he\u2019s busy and when he isn\u2019t. It basically means that he\u2019s keeping his options open.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s a mystery wrapped in an enigma\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sure, the brooding, mysterious types are attractive at first. But once you get to know a guy and start dating him, the mystery should fall away as he opens up to you and tells you his name, his age and where he lives. Et cetera.<\/p>\n

If your man is still a mystery to you even after several dates, you should take this as a warning sign. You should by now have found certain things about him; certain things he was only too happy to reveal. If he\u2019s keeping his cards close to his chest, be careful.<\/p>\n

He has lots of female friends<\/strong><\/p>\n

Of course, your man is allowed to have friends of the opposite sex and you certainly shouldn\u2019t tell him to abandon them now that you\u2019re in his life. It isn\u2019t right for anyone to suddenly abandon their friends just because they\u2019ve entered a relationship.<\/p>\n

But if he has TONNES of female friends who are constantly draped around his arms in Facebook photographs, you should probably be a little bit concerned. The more women he knows, the more likely it is that you aren\u2019t the only one close to him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re his friend to everyone else\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

To you, you\u2019re his girlfriend and he\u2019s your boyfriend. Privately, he possibly acknowledges this and agrees with it.<\/p>\n

But when he\u2019s referring to you to other people, he says that you\u2019re just a friend.<\/p>\n

This is a huge telltale sign that a man is playing with your heart and stringing you along. If he can\u2019t bring himself to admit to the world that you\u2019re an item, it usually means that it\u2019s because he\u2019s got a few other women in his life who are \u201cjust friends.\u201d<\/p>\n

There is lack of public intimacy\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the only woman in his life, he would surely have no problems kissing and touching you in public. In fact, he\u2019d probably initiate it all.<\/p>\n

But if he\u2019s got you and someone else in his love life, the chances are that he isn\u2019t too keen on getting it on in full view of everyone. If he bristles at public affection and never initiates even a peck on the cheek, you\u2019re right to be concerned that he\u2019s trying to make sure he doesn\u2019t get caught out.<\/p>\n

He does weird things\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

When somebody is having an affair, they can become agitated and do weird things. This might include refusing to answer their cell phone or keeping it switched off whenever they\u2019re around you. It might mean refusing to let you use their laptop or go through their phone. And when you ask him how his day went, he might shrug and just say \u201cit was okay\u201d without going into any details. None of this is normal behaviour and should be seen as a red flag.<\/p>\n

He comes to see you but rarely lets you go to see him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The fact that his place seems to always be out of bounds could be down to the fact that it\u2019s being decorated, as he says; or it could be down to the fact that he has a woman living there who he naturally doesn\u2019t want you to see!<\/p>\n

If he still hasn\u2019t given you his home address, he clearly doesn\u2019t want you in his neighbourhood where you could be seen \u2026 or where you might see someone who upsets you.<\/p>\n

You still haven’t met his mum\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Normally, guys love introducing their girlfriends to their mothers. And naturally, a mother is always desperate to meet the latest girl their son is dating.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve been seeing your man for a few weeks and he still hasn\u2019t suggested that you meet his mom (and dad), it\u2019s time to make the suggestion yourself. If he stalls and says it\u2019s too soon, you should definitely start to worry.<\/p>\n

He flirts with his friends\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Some guys are naturally flirtatious. But when a man is in a relationship, it\u2019s his duty to flirt with you and you only.<\/p>\n

If you catch him flirting with his female friends often, you should be a little bit cautious. It could be a sign that he flirts with anyone who he is attracted to, and it could mean that it isn\u2019t just you he\u2019s gone a little bit further with.<\/p>\n

His friend is not gender-specific\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

If he mentions that he\u2019s going to see \u201ca friend\u201d today but doesn\u2019t specify who it is \u2013 or that it\u2019s a male \u2013 you should be a little bit suspicious. Guys who have nothing to hide will come out and tell you which friend they are seeing. But if a guy is trying to hide another girl from you, he won\u2019t tell you that he\u2019s going to see her; and he won\u2019t even tell you that the person he\u2019s going to meet is a she.<\/p>\n

–<\/p>\n

Source: Beauty and Tips<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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