{"id":18999,"date":"2014-05-16T08:55:40","date_gmt":"2014-05-16T08:55:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=18999"},"modified":"2014-05-16T08:55:40","modified_gmt":"2014-05-16T08:55:40","slug":"ten-signs-your-boyfriend-is-a-jerk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2014\/05\/ten-signs-your-boyfriend-is-a-jerk\/","title":{"rendered":"Ten signs your boyfriend is a jerk"},"content":{"rendered":"
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They say nice guys finish last and\u2014for most of us\u2014that\u2019s probably true, considering the not-so-nice ones we\u2019ll often date before meeting Mr. Right.<\/p>\n

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In fact, for reasons that are largely intangible, even the most intelligent, self-possessed women have fallen for classic jerks at some point.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

In retrospect, most of us are able to understand that these guys weren\u2019t right for us, but getting to that place probably wasn\u2019t easy. It\u2019s because of that we decided to put together a primer to help other women gauge whether the guys they\u2019re dating right now are good ones, or totally not.<\/p>\n

Read on, dear friends, for 10 signs your boyfriend is an unequivocal jerk. And check out Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger’s advice on how to weed out losers in the video above.<\/p>\n

1. He looks at his phone more than he looks at you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Obviously we live in an overly-connected world, and most of us are pretty much attached to our devices 24\/7. However, obsessively checking his phone every minute he\u2019s with you isn\u2019t just annoying\u2014it\u2019s downright rude.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s essentially saying that your company isn\u2019t his first priority, texting is (or checking scores, scrolling Twitter, or playing Candy Crush.) Instagram can wait. No, it can\u2019t? Then he\u2019s probably not ready to have a relationship with an actual human just yet.<\/p>\n

2. He talks about how hot other women are.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sorry, we don\u2019t care how \u201ccool\u201d you are with stuff like this\u2014if your man is constantly making remarks about other women\u2019s looks in front of you, he\u2019s a jerk.\u00a0 These might include \u201cshe\u2019s so hot\u201d when you\u2019re explaining how Sansa escapes from King\u2019s Landing on \u201cGame of Thrones,\u201d how much hotter his friend\u2019s new girlfriend is than his old one, or simply commenting on random women\u2019s looks\/bodies\/racks.<\/p>\n

3. He blatantly checks them out.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Guess what? He\u2019s still a jerk if he uses overt non-verbal actions to gawk at women. Look, it\u2019s human nature that we like to look at pretty things\u2014you\u2019d look at a gorgeous guy walking by, too\u2014but outwardly gaping, drooling, head-turning, commenting, or abrupt conversation-stopping isn\u2019t acceptable, it\u2019s insulting. Dude needs to learn some discretion, and fast. If he can\u2019t, it\u2019s time for him to go.<\/p>\n

4. He only reaches out after he\u2019s been partying.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This is a big one, ladies. If you\u2019re okay with having a relationship with a guy who only wants to see you when he\u2019s tipsy at 2 a.m., who are we to judge? For all we know, you might have some guys on the side you late-night call, too. But if you\u2019re looking for something more\u2014a daylight outing, for example\u2014and you\u2019re not getting it, he\u2019s a jerk.<\/p>\n

5. He never wants to hang out with you and his friends together.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s just weird. If you\u2019re dating someone, it\u2019s a given that you do certain things together, like socializing. If he constantly seems to be avoiding his pals when he\u2019s with you, it\u2019s time to ask him why.<\/p>\n

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Source: Magazine.foxnews.com<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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