{"id":164683,"date":"2015-11-05T10:09:04","date_gmt":"2015-11-05T10:09:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=164683"},"modified":"2015-11-05T10:09:04","modified_gmt":"2015-11-05T10:09:04","slug":"top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 5 mistakes men make that scare women away"},"content":{"rendered":"

Men who are confident and sure of themselves and considered \u2018hot\u2019 by girls sometimes end up losing dates within a first! Instead of forming solid relationships, these guys continually get dumped at the same point in every courtship. We found out about the top five mistakes a guy makes that scares women away.<\/p>\n

Too easy to please<\/strong>
\nMen who throw out too many niceties too early on in a relationship, laugh at all the jokes that a girl makes (even when they both know they\u2019re not funny), and are always ready to do what the girl wants are the type of men women are wary off. Of course women love compliments, who doesn\u2019t? But when it is over the top then it stops working. Women feel that the \u2018too eager to please\u2019 are the men who are probably insecure.<\/p>\n

Being possessive too soon<\/strong>
\nSo your girlfriend is out with her own bunch of friends and it\u2019s late. You are not very happy. You start obsessively calling, texting and stalking her social networking, micro blogging sites.<\/p>\n

You know what it\u2019s like: <\/strong>You are sitting at home playing Playstation while your hot new girlfriend is still out drinking with a bunch of her male colleagues. It\u2019s getting late and since you haven\u2019t heard from her for a couple of hours, you try to get hold of her. But you can\u2019t. So you start. Unfortunately, she\u2019s not going to think it\u2019s cute; she\u2019s going to think it\u2019s creepy. Even if you are growing green with envy over the fact that she was hanging with other men, you need to act like she\u2019s entitled to have a life of her own. And if you do this, she\u2019s going to want to spend even more time with you anyway.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t ask her to split the bill<\/strong>
\nOf course women like to pay their own bills and we know we can afford those expensive dinners. But we still feel great when a man pulls out his wallet. Women can figure what kind of a man you are by your behaviour. No, you don\u2019t need to take her to a prohibitively expensive restaurant all the time. Taking her out on a date where you pay for the meal and you do not complain about it will show her that you are someone who really knows how to take care of a woman.<\/p>\n

Women are generally drawn to men who can protect and provide. And a girl will pay once in a while but asking her to pay up every time only convinces her that you are not someone she can have a future with, at all.<\/p>\n

The ex-factor<\/strong>
\nGirls are not interested in listening to: \u2018how wonderful your ex was, how she unceremoniously dumped you, how toxic your old relationship was, or how glad you are to \u2018finally be rid of her\u2019. For a girl all this is not a turn on at all and makes her feel that the man is too deep under his own baggage. It is downright boring to listen to a man whine about a relationship that does not involve her. If you are not over your ex avoid going out with someone else. And if you do go out, avoid mentioning your ex.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s not talk about sex, baby<\/strong>
\nIf you really like a girl and are interested in forming a long-lasting relationship with her, hold off on the pressure of a physical relationship. She\u2019ll let you know when she\u2019s ready \u2014 and it will probably be sooner than you think.<\/p>\n

–<\/p>\n

Source: The Times of India<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Men who are confident and sure of themselves and considered \u2018hot\u2019 by girls sometimes end up losing dates within a first! Instead of forming solid relationships, these guys continually get dumped at the same point in every courtship. We found out about the top five mistakes a guy makes that scares women away. Too easy […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":164684,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[51],"yoast_head":"\nTop 5 mistakes men make that scare women away - Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Top 5 mistakes men make that scare women away - Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Men who are confident and sure of themselves and considered \u2018hot\u2019 by girls sometimes end up losing dates within a first! Instead of forming solid relationships, these guys continually get dumped at the same point in every courtship. We found out about the top five mistakes a guy makes that scares women away. Too easy […]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/citi97.3\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2015-11-05T10:09:04+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/unhappy-black-couple-2.jpg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Kojo Akoto Boateng\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@citi973\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@citi973\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Kojo Akoto Boateng\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/\",\"name\":\"Top 5 mistakes men make that scare women away - Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2015-11-05T10:09:04+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2015-11-05T10:09:04+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/#\/schema\/person\/1642ef473fe39bf0c4e2f2f252678eb1\"},\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Top 5 mistakes men make that scare women away\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/\",\"name\":\"Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always\",\"description\":\"Ghana News | Ghana Politics | Ghana Soccer | Ghana Showbiz\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":\"required name=search_term_string\"}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/#\/schema\/person\/1642ef473fe39bf0c4e2f2f252678eb1\",\"name\":\"Kojo Akoto Boateng\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ba51f5385119e83762c67ecd6aa410ab?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ba51f5385119e83762c67ecd6aa410ab?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Kojo Akoto Boateng\"},\"url\":\"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/author\/kojo\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Top 5 mistakes men make that scare women away - Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Top 5 mistakes men make that scare women away - Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always","og_description":"Men who are confident and sure of themselves and considered \u2018hot\u2019 by girls sometimes end up losing dates within a first! Instead of forming solid relationships, these guys continually get dumped at the same point in every courtship. We found out about the top five mistakes a guy makes that scares women away. Too easy […]","og_url":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/","og_site_name":"Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/citi97.3","article_published_time":"2015-11-05T10:09:04+00:00","og_image":[{"url":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/unhappy-black-couple-2.jpg"}],"author":"Kojo Akoto Boateng","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_creator":"@citi973","twitter_site":"@citi973","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Kojo Akoto Boateng","Est. reading time":"3 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/","url":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/","name":"Top 5 mistakes men make that scare women away - Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/#website"},"datePublished":"2015-11-05T10:09:04+00:00","dateModified":"2015-11-05T10:09:04+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/#\/schema\/person\/1642ef473fe39bf0c4e2f2f252678eb1"},"breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/11\/top-5-mistakes-men-make-that-scare-women-away\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Top 5 mistakes men make that scare women away"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/#website","url":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/","name":"Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always","description":"Ghana News | Ghana Politics | Ghana Soccer | Ghana Showbiz","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":"required name=search_term_string"}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/#\/schema\/person\/1642ef473fe39bf0c4e2f2f252678eb1","name":"Kojo Akoto Boateng","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ba51f5385119e83762c67ecd6aa410ab?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/ba51f5385119e83762c67ecd6aa410ab?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Kojo Akoto Boateng"},"url":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/author\/kojo\/"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164683"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=164683"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/164683\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/164684"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=164683"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=164683"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=164683"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}