We\u2019ve all been the subject of a guy having a crush on us, but we\u2019re rarely able to second guess what they\u2019re thinking. Guys can be mysterious at times, and never more so whenever they\u2019ve got the hots for us.<\/p>\n
As frustrating as it is, you just can\u2019t tell whether his crush is something that will fade as quickly as it came, or whether he\u2019s got it really bad for us.<\/p>\n
We know what it\u2019s like when we\u2019ve got a crush. The world can suddenly seem like a weird place and we begin to act ten times more crazy than we normally would. We check their Facebook all the time, we send more texts than we\u2019ve sent in our entire lives and we indulge in those online quizzes to find out if we\u2019re compatible. But are guys like this?<\/p>\n
If it\u2019s true that women are from Venus and men are from Mars, understanding what they\u2019re thinking is going to be impossible. Luckily for you, we\u2019ve put together a list of 10 things guys think when they have a crush on a girl, all based on answers given by guys themselves. So to figure out exactly what is going through that cute guy\u2019s mind as he acts all coy around you and asks you out on a date to the cinema, let\u2019s take a look at what they have to say.<\/p>\n
1. \u201cI Wonder If She Feels The Same Way\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Aww. This means guys think exactly like we do! It means they\u2019re totally human and have totally human feelings after all! Rather than be all cool and casual about the whole crush thing, men actually do care about what you\u2019re feeling. They want to know whether you have a crush on them too, and if you don\u2019t, they want to know what they could do to make you fancy them.<\/p>\n 2. \u201cWe Could Be A Great Couple\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Again, this is evidence that men are not from Mars, but are actually from the same planet as we are and think exactly like we do. When they develop a crush, they begin to imagine what a relationship with us would be like. They lie in bed at night, hands behind their head, and look to the stars, picturing you both together.<\/p>\n They even go through the whole process, from meeting your parents (and impressing them), to marrying you! Wow-zers. And you thought you were the only one who pictured yourself in a wedding dress.<\/p>\n 3. \u201cShe\u2019s Totally Perfect\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Sweet. You\u2019re perfect! Guys \u2013 especially younger guys \u2013 sometimes fall absolutely head over heels in love with ladies whenever they develop a crush. They worship us, believe we could do no wrong. They ignore our flaws, and will do anything to defend us in front of their buddies.<\/p>\n It\u2019s perhaps a bit unhealthy to worship someone quite like some guys do when they\u2019ve got a crush, but, hey, being adored is pretty cool from time to time, right?<\/p>\n 4. \u201cIs That Guy On Facebook Her Boyfriend?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n If he has a crush on you but hasn\u2019t actually asked you out yet, he may well be checking your Facebook every hour to see what you\u2019re up to. It\u2019s not creepy or stalker-ish (not yet anyway), but it\u2019s kinda cute in a way. It just shows that he\u2019s got it bad.<\/p>\n But if he comes across lots of photo\u2019s with you and some guy you know, he\u2019s going to grow paranoid that you\u2019ve already got a boyfriend you\u2019re in love with and going to marry. Even though it\u2019s probably just your brother. Unluckily for your brother, he\u2019s now going to get stalked too.<\/p>\n Crushes, hey? They can send guys crazy.<\/p>\n 5. \u201cWhat Am I Going To Do Wrong This Time?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Whenever they\u2019ve got a crush, guys just really don\u2019t want to mess things up, especially, when you\u2019ve reciprocated the crush and told them you fancy them too. If they\u2019ve had bad experiences so far, they\u2019re going to worry about this one, day and night. They might even lie in bed, torturing themselves about how they\u2019re going to get on your nerves and blow it.<\/p>\n You\u2019re torturing them and you don\u2019t even know it.<\/p>\n 6. \u201cWhat Did She Mean By That?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Guys can get incredibly analytical when they\u2019re crushing, just like we sometimes can. They\u2019ll think about the peculiar way you reacted to something they said, or they\u2019ll focus on something you said that was loaded with double meaning. Then, they\u2019ll begin to panic and think it\u2019s a sign you\u2019re not interested in them anymore, or, worse still, you\u2019re annoyed with them.<\/p>\n Even the little incidents that you thought were irrelevant will be replayed in their minds, as they try to convince themselves that \u201cshe loves me not. She loves me. She loves me not.\u201d<\/p>\n 7. \u201cShould I Text Her?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n To text or not to text\u2026That is the question. If he\u2019s crushing really badly, he\u2019ll be thinking of excuses to send you a text. Even if your last text to him was a one word answer that signalled the end of a particular conversation, he\u2019ll want more of you. So he\u2019ll think about whether now is a good time to text, or whether he should wait another hour.<\/p>\n After all, he doesn\u2019t want to come across as being head over heels in love with you, does he? But you can guarantee, one way or another, that throughout the next hour he\u2019ll be thinking of something to say to you.<\/p>\n 8. \u201cShe Makes Me Feel So Nervous\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Crushes are so not like twenty years of marriage. Whenever a guy sees you, he goes weak at the knees. His lips tremble and he talks absolute gibberish, because he\u2019s so nervous. Then he feels stupid afterwards.<\/p>\n When he\u2019s been married to you for twenty years, you might get a grunt \u2018hello\u2019 in the morning before he zooms off to work. And when he gets home, you\u2019d better have dinner ready, otherwise there\u2019ll be trouble.<\/p>\n Ah, we love crushes.<\/p>\n 9. \u201cI Can\u2019t Stop Thinking About Her\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n When he tries to work on his math homework, you\u2019re there. When he goes to work, you\u2019re there. When he talks to his friends, you\u2019re there. You\u2019re always there! When he\u2019s crushing on you, he literally can\u2019t stop thinking about you, day and night. He thinks about your smile, your laugh, the way you walk and even the way you talk.<\/p>\n A lot of ladies falsely believe that guys never think about us, but the reality is that, when they\u2019re crushing, they\u2019re literally can\u2019t think of anything else.<\/p>\n 10. \u201cAh, That Was A Great Day!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n As well as not being able to stop thinking about you \u2013 because you\u2019re just that awesome and attractive \u2013 guys also like to replay moments spent with you in their minds. They might overanalyse things they did wrong, and reflect on whether something they did annoyed you. Or they might just focus on the happier moments, such as when you laughed at all his jokes.<\/p>\n Either way, a guy likes to replay all these moments to both comfort him and reassure him that all is going well between you both. Aww, how sweet, you\u2019re being analysed!<\/p>\n Credit: The Trent<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" We\u2019ve all been the subject of a guy having a crush on us, but we\u2019re rarely able to second guess what they\u2019re thinking. Guys can be mysterious at times, and never more so whenever they\u2019ve got the hots for us. As frustrating as it is, you just can\u2019t tell whether his crush is something that […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24,"featured_media":120678,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[51],"yoast_head":"\n