{"id":114583,"date":"2015-05-08T08:45:27","date_gmt":"2015-05-08T08:45:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=114583"},"modified":"2015-05-11T11:25:41","modified_gmt":"2015-05-11T11:25:41","slug":"the-ghanaian-fear-of-outspoken-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2015\/05\/the-ghanaian-fear-of-outspoken-women\/","title":{"rendered":"The Ghanaian Fear of outspoken women"},"content":{"rendered":"
To be honest, I am not greatly surprised by the NDC foot-soldiers\u2019 attacks on Lydia Forson and Yvonne Nelson. It is standard behavior for politicians everywhere.<\/p>\n
In Ghana, anyone who dares criticize government is fiercely attacked.<\/p>\n
Usually these days, anyone who dissents is accused of working for the New Patriotic Party. Preachers in this town have been asked to leave the pulpit for active politics because they criticized the president.<\/p>\n
To those very comfortably affiliated with the governing party, everything the administration does is right. President John Mahama\u2019s people are the worst. They will not tell him the truth and they will take offense (where there is usually none) and attack anyone who dares speaks the truth they cannot and will not tell the president. But to stoop to misogyny is a new low, even for them.<\/p>\n
A number of musicians and actresses took to social media on Friday to vent about the ongoing power crisis. Sarkodie did a song called \u201cThe Masses\u201d to paint the horrible state of affairs. Lydia Forson wrote a letter asking the president to fix \u2018dumsor\u2019 like he promised. In a series of tweets, Yvonne Nelson got #dumsormuststop trending.<\/p>\n
Not everyone is pleased. As usual, officials and foot-soldiers of the NDC swiftly took to social media to berate them. For the first time, they did not accuse the whole group of working for the NPP like they did to Occupy Ghana.<\/p>\n
They did not even aim for the men in the group either. They simply went for the women who spoke up. One Alhaji Halidu Haruna put up a post on Facebook calling Lydia Forson and Yvonne Nelson irresponsible prostitutes because they are both above 30 and single.<\/p>\n
<\/a><\/p>\n In another post on Facebook, Dela Coffie, a known supporter of the NDC, wrote: \u201cI am not sure if this your frequent throwing of tantrums is a menopausal irritability or a midlife issue. Whatever it is, I am sure President Mahama is ready to take an advise on morality, but certainly not from a brothel.\u201d<\/p>\n This is cruel, disrespectful and unnecessary. I mean what has a woman\u2019s sexuality got to do with her demand for a more reliable electricity supply. There is a name for this kind of attacks on women. It is called slut-shaming.<\/p>\n It is the act of disparaging a woman for her real or presumed sexual behavior. It is a powerful silencer. Women who are perceived to have deviated from patriarchal expectations of women are criticized until they leave the space humiliated.<\/p>\n Immediately a woman speaks up, her right to speak is questioned before she is heard. Her right to speak is determined by her marital status as stated. If she is married, people will listen and treat her with some respect because she has a man. Single women, however, are taunted for being sluts unworthy of being heard.<\/p>\n That was the reasoning behind Halidu Haruna and Dala Coffie\u2019s comments. According to their twisted logic, the only human beings worthy of ever criticizing the government are men (single and married) and married women.<\/p>\n Every Ghanaian woman experiences some form of this silencing. Married women are told to dress and speak in a certain manner. Single women are told to cover up and be submissive to avoid the label. An outspoken single woman is told to tone down to avoid the shaming.<\/p>\n All women are told never to challenge or question a man\u2019s word. If the husband is a progressive man (not that there are many around), foot-soldiers of patriarchy will force him to silence his wife \u2013 because people will only discuss her body parts. It is not for nothing that most activists and outspoken women are either single or divorced.<\/p>\n The other day, when I criticized the government\u2019s action on Facebook, someone I went to university with wrote: \u201cyou think you have grown wings, were we not sleeping with you in school.\u201d He must have been a useless fuck because I don\u2019t remember sleeping with him. He didn\u2019t care about the truth. He thought if he could portray me as \u2018loose\u2019 that will diminish the value of my words.<\/p>\n
\nMarried women are given some respect out of respect for their husbands, not because they are human beings. But even they do not escape the specter of silencing, most men, knowing the abuse an assertive woman gets, prevent their wives from engaging in the public space.<\/p>\n