{"id":10782,"date":"2014-04-03T13:30:30","date_gmt":"2014-04-03T13:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=10782"},"modified":"2014-04-03T13:30:30","modified_gmt":"2014-04-03T13:30:30","slug":"are-you-guilty-of-an-instant-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/2014\/04\/are-you-guilty-of-an-instant-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Are you guilty of an instant relationship?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\"Black-woman-laying-in-bed\"<\/a>I’m going to tell you something that\u2019s going to save you a ton of time \u2013 especially the hours you spend dissecting a man\u2019s behaviour.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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When a man doesn\u2019t call once you\u2019ve connected in a deeper way, there are only three possible reasons why:<\/p>\n

\u2022 He doesn\u2019t know what to do with the connection you share because it\u2019s not the right time for him<\/p>\n

\u2022 He doesn\u2019t know what to do with the connection you share because he\u2019s not mature or capable of getting any closer<\/p>\n

\u2022 Something was said or done that tells him that a relationship with you is not a fit for him.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s absolutely nothing you can do about the first two reasons.\u00a0 No matter how amazing you are, a man who isn\u2019t ready for a relationship won\u2019t suddenly become ready or mature because of anything you do, say, or are.<\/p>\n

But screeching halt at number three, right?\u00a0 Your worst fears are confirmed: something you say or do can make a man turn in the opposite direction.\u00a0 Well, not exactly.\u00a0 It\u2019s something else\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2022 Let me tell you about \u2018instant relationship\u2019.<\/p>\n

Many women, after knowing a guy for only a short while, let themselves get wrapped up in what I call an Instant Relationship.\u00a0 This is when a woman will already be thinking ahead that she is in a relationship with a guy, that they will be spending all their weekends together, and that he won\u2019t be dating any other women.<\/p>\n

And this happens when the guy hasn\u2019t even talked about a relationship.\u00a0 Then the woman gets disappointed when it turns out he isn\u2019t exclusive with her or isn\u2019t making plans to see her on Friday.<\/p>\n

So, instead of putting all your energy into creating this Instant Relationship, focus instead on drawing the man you want in and connecting with him on an emotional level.\u00a0 Here\u2019s how\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2022 Start living the life that will attract a great guy.<\/p>\n

Question: if a man were to simply join you in the things you were doing in your life\u2026 would he have a great time? Would he see you living a happy and full life? Would he be excited to be with you and do some of the things you\u2019re doing?<\/p>\n

Lots of women have great lives.\u00a0 But as soon as they meet a guy, they focus too much on giving to him or trying to please him.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll do things like give up friends and hobbies and weekends for a man \u2013 only to realise that they \u201clost themselves\u201d in the relationship.<\/p>\n

Take a moment now to think about this.\u00a0 And then write down three things you can start doing for yourself that will make you more attractive to the kind of man you want to attract.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Create the conditions for him to \u2018fall\u2019 into a real relationship.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s one thing that all men love and respond to, and it\u2019s one of the most simple but powerful secrets to leaving a man wanting more. And this one thing is appreciation. Appreciation to men is what affection and reassurance are to women.<\/p>\n

Men fall in love not when a woman gives and gives to them, but through the process of having a woman they enjoy giving to.<\/p>\n

So if you\u2019re worried that a man will think you\u2019re not interested in him if you don\u2019t move things forward, here\u2019s what you need to know:\u00a0 all you need to do is show a man appreciation.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say you\u2019ve had a great date with a man and you definitely want him to ask you out again.\u00a0 All you have to do at the end of the date is thank him and let him know you had a great time with him.<\/p>\n

The trick is to express genuine appreciation without any \u201chook\u201d or conditions to it. That is the magic way that appreciation sinks into a man\u2019s heart and lets him know a woman is special and gets him thinking about her again right away.<\/p>\n

When you make your life as rich as possible, the right guy will naturally want to be a part of it.\u00a0 And when he does show up, simply let him know you\u2019re glad he\u2019s in it.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t fall victim to the Instant Relationship\u2026and you\u2019ll create a solid foundation for a lasting, connected, REAL relationship.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Source: Daily Graphic<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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