Odd but true Archives - Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always https://citifmonline.com/tag/odd-but-true/ Ghana News | Ghana Politics | Ghana Soccer | Ghana Showbiz Wed, 26 Jul 2017 16:49:03 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.0.8 https://citifmonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/cropped-CITI-973-FM-32x32.jpg Odd but true Archives - Citi 97.3 FM - Relevant Radio. Always https://citifmonline.com/tag/odd-but-true/ 32 32 3 women in court for allegedly raping Zimbabwean pastor https://citifmonline.com/2017/07/3-women-in-court-for-allegedly-raping-zimbabwean-pastor/ Wed, 26 Jul 2017 16:49:03 +0000 http://citifmonline.com/?p=339520 Three women have appeared in court after a pastor says he was raped. Two of the women are alleged to have pinned the man down on a bed while the third carried out the sex attack. A magistrates’ court in Bulawayo, Zimbabwe, was told that the victim was owed money by the attackers and he […]

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Three women have appeared in court after a pastor says he was raped.

Two of the women are alleged to have pinned the man down on a bed while the third carried out the sex attack.

A magistrates’ court in Bulawayo, Zimbabwe, was told that the victim was owed money by the attackers and he went to their home to collect it.

They invited him into the house but once he was inside he said he was grabbed around the waist and his trousers were pulled down by a second who then groped him.

The women Sandra Ncube, 21, Riamuhetsi Mlauzi, 23, and Mongiwe Mpofu, 25, denied rape but pleaded guilty to indecent assault.

One of them said they were ‘just playing around’.

Prosecutor Mr Petros Shoko said: ‘On July 14 at 7pm the complainant went to the accused persons residence to collect money which Mlauzi owed.

‘They forced him to lie on the bed and undressed him. Ncube sat on his chest and he tried to push her away. However Mlauzi held his legs together and sat on his top pressing him against the bed.

‘Mpofu was in another room and brought condoms and placed them on the complainant’s manhood and helped to hold him down.

‘Ncube had sexual intercourse with the complainant once without his consent’ Mr Shoko said.

The three denied raping the pastor but admitted indecent assault.

Ncube said: ‘We were just playing around Your Worship. I did not think that he would take it seriously’.

Mpofu denied taking part but admitted bringing the condoms saying: ‘We keep them around the house and I just brought them’.

Mlauzi said she wanted to ‘fix’ the pastor who she claimed had a habit of walking in on the women when they were bathing.

She said: ‘He always walks in on me bathing and claims to be unmoved as a man of God. I just wanted to see if he was going to be aroused or not.

‘I did not plan to execute the whole rape thing Your Worship’.

Magistrate Lungile Ncube was told by Mlauzi that she just wanted to prove to the pastor that he had ‘feelings like everybody else’.

She said: ‘I wanted him to see that he was not special and was not immune to sexual arousal.

Source: Metro UK

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Man becomes first British Muslim in gay marriage amid death threats https://citifmonline.com/2017/07/man-becomes-first-british-muslim-in-gay-marriage-amid-death-threats/ Wed, 12 Jul 2017 08:16:52 +0000 http://citifmonline.com/?p=335791 A gay man from the West Midlands has become the first Muslim to wed in a same-sex marriage. Jahed Choudhury, 24, grew up feeling ostracised by the Muslim community because he was gay and was even sent on a religious pilgrimage to change his sexual orientation. Two years ago, following a lifetime of bullying, Mr […]

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A gay man from the West Midlands has become the first Muslim to wed in a same-sex marriage.

Jahed Choudhury, 24, grew up feeling ostracised by the Muslim community because he was gay and was even sent on a religious pilgrimage to change his sexual orientation.

Two years ago, following a lifetime of bullying, Mr Choudhury considered taking his own life until he was spotted crying on a town bench in Darlaston by Sean Rogan, 19.

Jahed Choudhury, left, and Sean Rogan, right, married wearing traditional Muslim dress in a ceremony inside Walsall Registry Office

The happy couple, pictured, met two years ago when Mr Choudhury, right, was considering ending his life when he was approached by Mr Rogan, left, who spoke to him on a bench

The happy couple, pictured, met two years ago when Mr Choudhury, right, was considering ending his life when he was approached by Mr Rogan, left, who spoke to him on a bench

Two years later, Mr Choudhury, right, is believed to be the first Muslim man to have had a same-sex marriage in Britain and feels he is proof that it is okay to be both gay and a Muslim

Two years later, Mr Choudhury, right, is believed to be the first Muslim man to have had a same-sex marriage in Britain and feels he is proof that it is okay to be both gay and a Muslim

Mr Rogan comforted Mr Choudhury and they soon became a couple. Now the couple have wed in a ceremony in Walsall, both wearing traditional Bangladeshi wedding clothes.

However,  the couple have been subjected to several death threats.

He said: ‘I want to say to all people going through the same thing that it’s okay – we’re going to show the whole world that you can be gay and Muslim.’

At a low-key ceremony at Walsall registry office, Mr Choudhury from Darlaston, tied the knot in traditional Muslim attire with his partner of two years.

In what is seen as a cultural taboo for many traditional Muslims, Mr Choudhury is one of only a few openly-gay Muslim men and the first in the UK to marry another man.

Growing up with Bangladeshi parents and three siblings in a traditional Muslim household, Mr Choudhury recalls being the ‘black sheep’ of the family.

He is now looking forward to a happy life with Mr Rogan, who he first met while crying on a bench in Darlaston.

Mr Choudhury said: ‘I was crying on a bench and Sean came over and asked if I was okay. He gave me hope at one of my lowest points and he’s stood by me all the way.’

‘I stood out like a sore thumb – I never liked football, I preferred watching fashion shows on TV. I remember feeling trapped.’

He said: ‘It went all over school, people would spit on me, empty the rubbish bins on me, call me pig and the Muslim people would shout “harum” – which is a very nasty insult in my language.’

A period of trying to change his sexual orientation consisted of him having a girlfriend, changing his social circle, taking medication and even going on a pilgrimage to Saudi Arabia and Bangladesh.

Members of both families attended the low-key ceremony in Walsall  

According to Mr Choudhury the situation only got worse – he was assaulted by fellow Muslims in the street where he lived and a homophobic slur was sprayed on his front door.

The mosque he’d been attending for the past 15 years no longer allowed him in and he was physically attacked by other Muslim boys. Feeling ostracised, Mr Choudhury attempted to kill himself.

Mr Choudhury said: ‘I’d been viciously attacked by Muslim boys, my mosque told me non-Muslims were not allowed in.

‘I tried killing myself and I then met Sean. The housing association got us a house in a week and we’ve been living together ever since. I proposed on Sean’s birthday last June.’

Following their wedding in Walsall, the happy couple are jetting to Spain on honeymoon

Following their wedding in Walsall, the happy couple are jetting to Spain on honeymoon

Mr Choudhury says he has post-traumatic stress disorder meaning he struggles to face people alone and can’t work.

But now he has taken a significant step forward for both the Muslim and LGBT communities.

He added: ‘We’re going to have a big party in Darlaston afterwards and go to Spain for a week on holiday.’

The ceremony was attended by both families and friends.

Mr Choudhury’s mother, sister, older brother and cousin witnessed the wedding, as did Mr Rogan’s mother, two sisters and older brother.

The couple arrived at the registry office for their ceremony in a luxury Rolls Royce, pictured

The couple arrived at the registry office for their ceremony in a luxury Rolls Royce, pictured

The happy couple celebrated their wedding with family and friends - and some cake

The happy couple celebrated their wedding with family and friends – and some cake

The couple had the date of their happy day engraved on their wedding rings 

The couple had the date of their happy day engraved on their wedding rings 

Mr Choudhury said: ‘My mum has always been so supportive. Without her I would not be here today.

‘It was lovely for both out families to be there. We get on really well.

‘It was just close friends and family who were invited as I did not want a big wedding.

‘It was just perfect the way it was.’

Mr Rogan agreed to Mr Choudhury’s request to wear traditional Bangladeshi wedding outfits.

Mr Choudhury also revealed that Mr Rogan is considering converting to Islam, but that the couple would struggle to find a mosque.

Mr Choudhury said Mr Rogan was considering becoming a Muslim, although he said finding a Mosque that would be willing to welcome him would be difficult 

The couple decided to wear a Bangladeshi wedding outfit for their big day as it was ‘beautiful’

He said: ‘The outfits are traditional Muslim-Bangladeshi outfits. Everyone wears them for a wedding at home.

‘I told Sean I thought it would be very nice to wear them and he agreed.

‘Also, they look very pretty.

‘Sean is considering converting to Islam. I asked him if he would on my behalf.

‘We would not be able to find a place of worship however. We would not be welcomed by any mosques.

‘I have heard about the liberal mosque in Berlin that opened recently where they are a lot less traditional.

‘It sounds fantastic. I really want to visit, and wish we could have somewhere like that here.’

The newlyweds also revealed that they have received a number of death threats since the wedding, but they remain determined to ignore them after their special day.

Mr Choudhury said: ‘We have had death threats against us and our families. People telling me they are going to kill me and that I should never have been born. They are really vile, horrible comments.

‘But we are so happy we are able to just brush them off. We’ve had an awful lot of support too.’

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Source: Mail Online

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Slovak brothers win burial competition with fastest, neatest grave https://citifmonline.com/2016/11/slovak-brothers-win-burial-competition-with-fastest-neatest-grave/ Sat, 12 Nov 2016 12:05:32 +0000 http://citifmonline.com/?p=267522 Two brothers from Slovakia won a grave-digging competition at an international exhibition of funeral, burial and cremation services on Thursday. Ladislav and Csaba Skladan, aged 43 and 41 respectively, dug a grave 1.5 meters deep, two meters long and 90 centimeters wide in 54 minutes in the western Slovak town of Trencin, beating 10 other […]

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Two brothers from Slovakia won a grave-digging competition at an international exhibition of funeral, burial and cremation services on Thursday.

Ladislav and Csaba Skladan, aged 43 and 41 respectively, dug a grave 1.5 meters deep, two meters long and 90 centimeters wide in 54 minutes in the western Slovak town of Trencin, beating 10 other two-member teams from Slovakia, Poland and Hungary as a small audience cheered loudly.

Their grave was also the neatest, a five-member jury agreed.

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“We want to show and appreciate the hard work of grave diggers,” said Ladislav Striz, who established the contest last year.

“Most Slovak graveyards are so crowded and spaces between graves so narrow that we need human diggers instead of machines,” he said. “They work hard, come rain, come snow.”

“I am happy we won, it’s a satisfaction after fifteen years in this job,” Csaba Skladan said.

“I had to focus on speed today but usually, when the weather is nice and I can chat with my brother, it’s a dream job,” added Ladislav Skladan.

Source: Reuters

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