Do you feel you are ready to get hitched? Well you’d better hold on until you are a hundred percent certain. Here’s how to make absolutely sure before you say I do:<\/p>\n
1.\u00a0You’re living together and you don’t want to kill each other.<\/strong><\/p>\n In fact you completely love it. Even when they leave the seat up.<\/p>\n 2.\u00a0You don’t check his texts like a psychopath<\/strong><\/p>\n (Like you did for the first 6 months you were together).<\/p>\n 3.\u00a0You have a Pinterest board of ideas\u00a0for your\u00a0wedding.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n And they’re\u00a0mostly<\/em>\u00a0realistic because the idea of a wedding is no longer a fantasy for you.<\/p>\n 4.\u00a0You don’t miss your\u00a0dating days.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n In fact tales of your mates’ single life make you really<\/em> thankful you’re not in their boat.<\/p>\n 5.\u00a0If he’s not around, you’re not suspicious.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Your relationship is strong enough that you can admit you actually like\u00a0having alone time to catch up with crappy TV shows.<\/p>\n 6.\u00a0You don’t ask for that five cedis you lent them back .\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n That’s SO honeymoon phase.<\/p>\n 7.\u00a0You guys can talk about having kids without it feeling SUPER weird.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n And you’re actually excited by it.<\/p>\n 8.\u00a0You’ve discussed getting a dog. And what it would be called.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n That’s essentially<\/em> the same as having a child. Right?<\/p>\n 9.\u00a0You could give each other your Facebook\/email passwords and there’d be nothing to hide.<\/strong><\/p>\n You feel guilty even joke-flirting with guys, so infidelity totally bemuses you.<\/p>\n 10.\u00a0You go to the gigs of the shitty bands he likes without complaining.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n (Much<\/em>.)<\/p>\n 11.\u00a0They prefer you without makeup on<\/strong><\/p>\n If that isn’t legit love WHAT IS?<\/p>\n 12.\u00a0You’re totally okay with the prospect of that one penis being the only penis you’ll see forever more.<\/strong><\/p>\n Because it’s about the person attached to it. (And their excellent knowledge of what to do with it.)<\/p>\n 13.\u00a0You talk about your future in ‘whens’ not ‘ifs’<\/strong><\/p>\n Because your future together is just\u00a0a certainty to you guys.<\/p>\n 14.\u00a0You’re the best version of you when you’re around them.<\/strong><\/p>\n As vommy as it sounds, you really DO complete each other.<\/p>\n 15.\u00a0You don’t go to bed on an argument.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n You’ve finally figured out when to just let it go. Or at least pretend you’ve let it go so you can look like the bigger person.<\/p>\n 16.\u00a0You can openly diss their relatives when necessary<\/strong><\/p>\n You’re WAY\u00a0past the pretending-to-like-everyone in their lives phase. And that’s okay.<\/p>\n 17.\u00a0You’ve been saving money for your future – together.<\/strong><\/p>\n And had the difficult discussion of how much of it\u00a0will be going allocated for a gaming chair. Precisely none.<\/p>\n 18.\u00a0It feels wrong sleeping without them when they’re not there.<\/strong><\/p>\n You’ve definitely sent them emo photos of the empty side of their bed when they’re away. :'(<\/p>\n 19.\u00a0They know your deepest, darkest secrets.<\/strong><\/p>\n And they love you more\u00a0for them.<\/p>\n 20.\u00a0And all the\u00a0stuff you\u00a0really\u00a0like (and dislike)\u00a0in the bedroom<\/strong><\/p>\n You know you’re for real when you can tell a guy their *fancy technique* isn’t working for you.<\/p>\n 21.\u00a0You’ve definitely got screen grabs of your dream ring on your phone<\/strong><\/p>\n And you’ve dropped hints to him about what you want ‘when the day comes’.<\/p>\n 22.\u00a0You know you’re a bit\u00a0TOO close, but you wouldn’t change it.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Popping each other’s spots is a grim but very real display of true love.<\/p>\n 23.\u00a0You just hate being apart, even when they’re just at work.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n You weirdly empathise with this scene in Stepbrothers. Just so you’d be together all the time.<\/p>\n 24.\u00a0You have a joint bank account.<\/strong><\/p>\n Because being a unit\u00a0means not getting petty over who bought the last Nando’s.<\/p>\n 25.\u00a0You’re completely and utterly over your ex.<\/strong><\/p>\n In fact your past relationships just fade into insignificance now you know what proper<\/em> love is.<\/p>\n 26.\u00a0You want to get married for what it symbolises, not for the party and endless cake.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Although the cake helps. It really does.<\/p>\n 27.\u00a0They know that the\u00a0little\u00a0romantic gestures\u00a0are better than grand ones<\/strong><\/p>\n Although them proposing is one\u00a0grand gesture you’d probably\u00a0be down with. Just saying.<\/p>\n –<\/p>\n Source: Cosmopolitan UK<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Do you feel you are ready to get hitched? Well you’d better hold on until you are a hundred percent certain. Here’s how to make absolutely sure before you say I do: 1.\u00a0You’re living together and you don’t want to kill each other. In fact you completely love it. 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