{"id":40886,"date":"2014-08-21T13:03:47","date_gmt":"2014-08-21T13:03:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=40886"},"modified":"2014-08-21T16:25:12","modified_gmt":"2014-08-21T16:25:12","slug":"ways-to-be-the-fun-girl-every-guy-wants-to-be-with-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=40886","title":{"rendered":"Ways to be the fun girl every guy wants to be with"},"content":{"rendered":"

The number one things clients tell me after a divorce? They want to be able to love life and laugh again.<\/span><\/p>\n

After a divorce, we all want to move forward and create a new life. But it\u2019s hard to do that when you take everything so seriously. Here are ten tips on how to loosen up.<\/p>\n

Laugh<\/strong>. Watch silly animal videos on YouTube. Watch a comedy. Tell corny jokes. Loosen up and learn to laugh. Laughing more reminds your body and your mind that life isn\u2019t always serious.<\/p>\n

Be mindful about what you put into your body, but don\u2019t take it to extremes.<\/strong> Food is meant to be enjoyed and savored. If you get so wrapped up micromanaging your intake, it\u2019s hard to have fun.<\/p>\n

YES, I know that some folks really do have food allergies and it\u2019s nothing to take lightly. But, baby, you don\u2019t have to make every meal a serious business.<\/p>\n

Speaking of our bodies, stop trying to burn calories and find something physical you enjoy doing.<\/strong> Ride your bike. Go for a walk. Play a game of hoops. Going to spin class, yoga or Pilates is all fine and good if you enjoy it.<\/p>\n

But if you don\u2019t like it, then it\u2019s going to make you cranky. Finding a way to move your body that\u2019s fun will remind you that life is meant to be lived and experienced \u2014 not regimented.<\/p>\n

And while we\u2019re on the topic of our bodies, go to bed already.<\/strong> Did you know that sleep deprivation will make you cranky? When you\u2019re tired and cranky, of course you\u2019re going to be able to have fun with life.<\/p>\n

All those posts of Facebook will be there tomorrow. And that email? It will be, too. Make sure you get enough sleep so that you can put your energy toward playing, not staying awake.<\/p>\n

Rules are made to be broken.<\/strong> If you live your life by following a strict set of rules, of course you\u2019re going to be wound a little tight. There\u2019s a big difference between laws and rules.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t box yourself into a tiny space with loads of rules.<\/strong> If the rules are holding you back from being the sexiest, shiniest, most amazing version of who you are, then maybe they\u2019re optional.<\/p>\n

All work and no play make you a dull person.<\/strong> A good work ethic is important, but take a tip from JLaw here, too. When she isn\u2019t working, she\u2019s hanging out with friends, shopping and having fun.<\/p>\n

Grab a friend and play a game. It\u2019s not about who wins or what your score is; it\u2019s about the camaraderie and laughter that happen when you play a game with a friend. Go ahead and photo bomb your best friend.<\/p>\n

Allow yourself to Feel ALL of your emotions.<\/strong> If you\u2019re busy numbing yourself and trying not to feel those icky emotions, then you can’t really feel the good stuff either.There\u2019s no such thing as selective numbing. So, if you feel like having a good cry? Cry. I promise you it will help you loosen up!<\/p>\n

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Stop trying to be perfect.<\/strong> Trying to be perfect is nothing short of exhausting.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, you just have to chill.<\/strong> Kick back and binge watch “Orange is the New Black.” Hang out in your jammies all day and read a book. Hang out in bed all day.<\/p>\n

Meet a new beau? Relax and enjoy dating! Hold hands. Talk. Laugh. Flirt. Connect. Make out like you’re in high school. Don’t start planning the wedding after the first date. Relax and allow things to progress.<\/span><\/p>\n

Though some of us may never be “The Cool Girl,” we can take a page from JLaw\u2019s book. Loosen up, laugh, enjoy your food (and life).<\/p>\n

It will make you a happier person and, even if you don\u2019t attract a rock star, learning not to take things so seriously will make your love life more rewarding too.<\/p>\n

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Source: Yourtango.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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