{"id":38355,"date":"2014-08-11T11:44:23","date_gmt":"2014-08-11T11:44:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=38355"},"modified":"2014-08-11T11:44:23","modified_gmt":"2014-08-11T11:44:23","slug":"14-ways-you-can-be-better-in-bed-according-to-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=38355","title":{"rendered":"14 ways you can be better in bed, according to men"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ask a man what kind of\u00a0sex<\/a>\u00a0tips they’d give women if they could, and wow. Is it me, or is it getting hot in here?<\/p>\n

We’ve been gathering (mostly) anonymous suggestions from men and the bottom line is, they want everyone to enjoy themselves.<\/p>\n

But you want more specific details than that, right? It’s not always easy for us to tell our partners exactly what we want. And I can’t promise your man wants everything on this list. But I think\u00a0most\u00a0<\/em>of these tips will work for\u00a0most<\/em>\u00a0couples<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Here’s what men would\u00a0love<\/a>\u00a0more women to do in bed.<\/p>\n

1.\u00a0<\/span>Make the first move.<\/strong>\u00a0Guys can’t read your mind, and it gets tiring risking rejection. “I love a girl who’ll take charge, knows what she wants, and isn’t afraid to say it,” says one man. One great way to make the first move is to just “unbutton my shirt and start feeling me,” suggests another.<\/span><\/p>\n

2.\u00a0Tell them what you want and like.<\/strong>\u00a0This one comes up a lot — they really,\u00a0really<\/em>\u00a0want to know. “If it feels good,” one guy says, “‘reward’ him by letting him know it. Silence, holding your breath discourages him from it, and he’ll constantly change what he’s doing until he gets the reaction he is aiming for, so if you like what he’s doing, then let go and get into it.”<\/p>\n

3.\u00a0Be a good sport with oral sex.<\/strong>\u00a0Boy do guys have strong feelings about this. “Women, don’t act like it’s icky!” one guy we talked to advises. And most men prefer women to swallow.<\/p>\n

4.\u00a0<\/span>Groom.<\/strong>\u00a0Everyone has a different opinion about how much and where. But the consensus seems to be that trimming, at least, is more enticing.<\/span><\/p>\n

5.\u00a0Don’t worry about being a slut.<\/strong>\u00a0Did you sleep with him on the first or second date? That’s okay, they swear! Please, return their call or text the next day. Or at the very least, don’t let any sense of shame keep you from giving him a chance.<\/p>\n

6.\u00a0Meet them half-way.<\/strong>\u00a0One man speaking for all married men says, “I get that we have been married a long time and may have incompatible needs … But how about meeting us part way? Lack of desire shouldn’t trump desire 100 percent of the time.”<\/p>\n

7.\u00a0Wear something sexy on date night.<\/strong>\u00a0Specifically, wear lacy underwear and an outfit that “can be pulled off in one quick motion.” Yes,\u00a0really<\/em>. Or wear something that otherwise provides easy access to some covert grabbing.<\/p>\n

8.\u00a0Don’t wear underwear on date night.<\/strong>\u00a0Go commando. Always a hit.<\/p>\n

9.\u00a0Stay close.<\/strong>\u00a0When you’re out together, sit close to him. Touch him frequently and flirt with your eyes and words. This gets him in the mood in a big way.<\/p>\n

10.\u00a0Be an active participant during sex.<\/strong>\u00a0Don’t just lie back like a car being serviced at the garage. “Push back to my thrusts,” says one guy. “Touch yourself and maintain eye contact (really hot). Arch your back.”<\/p>\n

11.\u00a0Allow him a little bit of Christian Grey.<\/strong>\u00a0“Let me feel like I’m in control,” another man says.<\/p>\n

12.\u00a0Be adventurous.<\/strong>\u00a0“Be open to new positions,” one guy suggests. Variety is the spice of life, ladies! And you know what? I keep reading everywhere that it’s women who need variety in their sex life even more than men do.<\/p>\n

13.\u00a0Make some noise.<\/strong>\u00a0“Don’t be afraid to be loud,” says another guy. Unless, of course, you’re trying not to wake the kids.<\/p>\n

14.\u00a0Don’t worry about how you look.<\/strong>\u00a0“While making love, try to let go of any nervousness about how think your body looks,” says one man. “Seeing the body one is making love to is part of the lovemaking! If the man wants you … chances are he wants to see it — he will be grateful if you let him. Throw away any negative body image and be fully in the moment!”<\/p>\n

It’s true — most guys are just thrilled to be invited to the party. A man’s favorite body type is the one he has access to, right now. The end. Now women, go forth and enjoy!<\/p>\n

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Source: Youtango.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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