{"id":342488,"date":"2017-08-05T16:44:45","date_gmt":"2017-08-05T16:44:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=342488"},"modified":"2017-08-05T16:44:45","modified_gmt":"2017-08-05T16:44:45","slug":"32-shady-signs-hes-totally-leading-you-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=342488","title":{"rendered":"32 shady signs he’s totally leading you on"},"content":{"rendered":"

He’s a total player.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes,\u00a0you’ll find yourself living the single life, where you’re casually seeing some people, or maybe even just one person.\u00a0Love\u00a0and\u00a0dating can be a bit of a minefield\u00a0by itself, and it’s made worse when the dudes you’re finding are just playing games with the girls they fool around with.<\/p>\n

Don’t get caught off guard by these wannabe playboys. Recognize the signs of a guy who’s just playing games with you, and make sure you know the rules to the game to turn it in your favor.<\/p>\n

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1. He texts you just to see if you’ll answer.<\/strong><\/div>\n
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And you do, because you think it\u2019s inconsiderate not to answer people.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

2. But he has no intention of carrying on a conversation.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Then he goes and stops the conversation just when it begins.<\/p>\n

3. Or he ends conversations very ambiguously.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That requires you to say something and wait for his response.<\/p>\n

4. Like he just wants you waiting and staring at your phone every 5 seconds.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But he never actually answers. So you just turn into a paranoid fuck.<\/p>\n

5. He’s the king of the Booty Call<\/strong><\/p>\n

But God forbid you call him, it goes right to voicemail.<\/p>\n

6. Yet he denies\u00a0your<\/em>\u00a0calls after midnight.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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But he has no problem waking you the hell up at 1 AM.<\/p>\n

7. He’s a master when it comes to guilt-tripping.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Then somehow he always\u00a0makes you feel guilty\u00a0about something.<\/p>\n

8. Just to ensure you apologize.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And you just want him to stop yelling at you, so you apologize.<\/p>\n

9. And even when he’s wrong, he\u2019ll never admit it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Somehow it\u2019s never him that’s wrong, but rather everyone else on the planet.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

10. He just calls you crazy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But in those rare moments where you’re the one who’s right, he shuts you down so fast.<\/p>\n

11. Then he has you questioning everything you think and say.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He manipulates you into thinking \u201cam I crazy or is he just an asshole?\u201d<\/p>\n

12. He keeps you close.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’re always just within arm’s reach of him.<\/p>\n

13. But not close enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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He lets you in, but not really. You let me in just to get what you want.<\/p>\n

14. So you always want a little more.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He ends things with a snide comment or a one-liner that makes you both love and hate him but also want him more.<\/p>\n

15. He plays a pretty good sympathy card.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He knows what to say and when to say it just to get girls to fall for him.<\/p>\n

16. And most girls fall head over heels for it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Everyone thinks he’s complicated, but you know he’s just completely full of shit.<\/p>\n

17. He’s coy on social media.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll go and follow you, just to unfollow you.<\/p>\n

18. Because it just adds to his game.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Or like your pic and immediately unlike it.<\/p>\n

19. Just to keep you on edge<\/strong>…<\/p>\n

Even you can admit you like the game a little bit or you wouldn\u2019t be playing.<\/p>\n

20. But he’s never one to post pics with any specific girl.<\/strong><\/p>\n

His insta and FB are all on private and he hides a lot of shit.<\/p>\n

21. His phone probably has a lock code on it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We all do, but you know if you cracked that code, he’d be spitting the same lines he does to you as he does to every girl.<\/p>\n

22. You and he talk most when you’re both drunk.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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The only time you and he have real conversations is when you’re so drunk you can’t remember.<\/p>\n

23. His favorite app is Snapchat.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because everyone knows Snapchat was first\u00a0created as a way to get nudes.<\/p>\n

24. And he sends generic snaps.<\/strong><\/p>\n

To you and probably every other girl in his contacts.<\/p>\n

25. Even though yours are always direct.<\/strong><\/p>\n

But I\u2019m always gonna answer.<\/p>\n

26. You don\u2019t think he actually likes you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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He just likes the idea of having you around.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

27. But he likes the fact that you like him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yeah, you do like him. You don\u2019t really hold anything back or try and hide it.<\/p>\n

28. And he has you wrapped around his finger.<\/strong><\/p>\n

At least, it definitely seems that way.<\/p>\n

29. He might think you’re letting him win this game.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In reality, you’re far coyer than him.<\/p>\n

30. But that\u2019s what you like him to believe.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You know his game and you play the role of bashful sheep quite gracefully.<\/p>\n

31. Because you will always come out on top.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Never on top of him, though.<\/p>\n

32. And when it\u2019s over…<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’ll be his biggest regret and he’ll be the one saying sorry as you walk away.<\/p>\n

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