{"id":322930,"date":"2017-05-27T10:14:39","date_gmt":"2017-05-27T10:14:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=322930"},"modified":"2017-05-27T10:14:39","modified_gmt":"2017-05-27T10:14:39","slug":"how-to-be-the-cool-girl-guys-simply-cant-resist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=322930","title":{"rendered":"How to be the &#8220;cool girl&#8221; guys simply can&#8217;t resist"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Did you know that most men decide if a woman is &#8220;girlfriend material&#8221; within a few seconds of meeting her?<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s right &#8211; if you don&#8217;t know how to create the right first impression with a man, then you just might get thrown into the &#8220;just a friend&#8221; category for good.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s important to understand what attracts men to you at a deeper level from the get-go.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Men think of women as relationship material \u2014\u00a0or a &#8220;cool girl&#8221; \u2014\u00a0when they see that a woman understands something that other women can&#8217;t even see going on.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Cool girls&#8221; exude positive emotional energy that men can relate to. And they&#8217;re naturally the kind of women who every man is inexplicably drawn to, \u00a0even if they don&#8217;t look like a supermodel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here&#8217;s a list of what &#8220;cool girls&#8221; DON&#8217;T do:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Cool Girls DON&#8217;T exaggerate what&#8217;s going on around them or what a man&#8217;s doing, unless they&#8217;re doing it as a joke or to make fun of a man in a playful way.<\/li>\n<li>Cool Girls DON&#8217;T say everything that they&#8217;re feeling and experiencing. They think before they speak.<\/li>\n<li>Cool Girls DON&#8217;T mention bad situations, issues or problems from the past unless it&#8217;s a total &#8220;must&#8221; or extremely important and they haven&#8217;t been able to talk about it yet. They find the right time for them AND their man to talk. Otherwise, Cool Girls live in the present moment.<\/li>\n<li>Cool Girls DON&#8217;T try to FORCE a man to talk about his feelings. They know that it will only backfire and he&#8217;ll think she&#8217;s being needy and he&#8217;ll close off.<\/li>\n<li>Cool girls DON&#8217;T complain or talk about things for too long that are not other people&#8217;s responsibility or impossible for anyone to solve given the current situation.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Here are a few of the &#8220;cool girl&#8221; DOs (remember these if you want to get a guy to like you):<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Cool girls bring funny, positive thoughts and feelings to situations to create an experience that men will want to have again and again.<\/li>\n<li>Cool girls are willing to go with the flow when it comes to social things but make assertions when they have opinions and ideas.<\/li>\n<li>Cool girls have options and things to do that keep them satisfied so they don&#8217;t feel like they&#8217;re left out if they&#8217;re not invited to something (And even if they do, they certainly don&#8217;t complain about it or even mention it \u2014 they FIND something to do that makes them happy).<\/li>\n<li>Cool girls prefer that a man makes up his own mind; they don&#8217;t try to make a man do something.<\/li>\n<li>Cool girls know that the way they feel and talk about themselves is how men will feel about them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>So, are YOU a &#8220;cool girl&#8221;? Ask yourself these questions:<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"media_embed\"><\/div>\n<p>Are you the kind of woman that men are naturally drawn to and want to be with for more than just a fling?<\/p>\n<p>And do you get how to say all the right things verbally and non-verballyto let him instantly know that you&#8217;re the kind of girl he&#8217;d like to connect and fall in love with?<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>Source: Your Tango<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Did you know that most men decide if a woman is &#8220;girlfriend material&#8221; within a few seconds of meeting her? That&#8217;s right &#8211; if you don&#8217;t know how to create the right first impression with a man, then you just might get thrown into the &#8220;just a friend&#8221; category for good. 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