{"id":2400,"date":"2014-02-26T09:44:49","date_gmt":"2014-02-26T09:44:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=2400"},"modified":"2014-02-26T17:40:54","modified_gmt":"2014-02-26T17:40:54","slug":"how-to-move-on-after-he-cheated-or-lied","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=2400","title":{"rendered":"How to move on after he cheated or lied"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\"cheating\"<\/a>Perhaps nothing is more heartbreaking than being betrayed by a lover, whether you\u2019ve been with someone for a few months, years or decades. \u00a0Yes, it hurts. But the real question is how to move beyond it.<\/p>\n

Confessions of Cheating Husbands
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\u00a0<\/b>\u201cAny disappointment is likely to worsen feelings of low self-esteem that person may have to start off with.\u00a0 If it was a sexual betrayal, that person can become unjustifiably jealous and remain angry for a considerate amount of time,\u201d says psychiatrist, Dr. Fredric Neuman.<\/p>\n

5 lies you’ve been told about what men want<\/strong><\/p>\n

You may be hesitant to get into a new relationship, or you may crave a relationship even more, since the betrayal can leave you feeling lonely, says clinical psychologist and author\u00a0Dr. Belisa Vranich<\/span><\/a><\/span>. \u201cYou may look for someone who is the exact opposite to avoid \u2018that type\u2019 or unconsciously even look for someone similar so that \u2018this time\u2019 you can control the situation better.\u201d<\/p>\n

What counts as cheating?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Whether it was being cheated on, lied to, or manipulated, the key is learning to take control of your emotions:\u00a0Instead of being the victim, take the high road, says author and dating coach, Liz Kelly. (www.greatlifegreatlove.com<\/span><\/a>\u00a0)\u00a0 \u201cYou can get over a betrayal by deciding that you are now smarter and\u00a0won\u2019t put up with it again.\u201d \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span>Think he’s cheating? Here’s what to do<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Trusting your gut and knowing that most people are good is the key. And it wasn’t you, it was him.\u00a0\u201cTry to learn from the situation and see if there were signs you didn\u2019t see and should pay attention to next time,\u201d Vranich says.<\/p>\n

Why men cheat and how to stop it from happening<\/p>\n

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Neuman advises heeding that old advice about time healing all wounds — and more importantly, remembering that each relationship needs to be judged for what it is without bringing baggage to the table.<\/p>\n

\u00a0Should cheaters get a second chance?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cLove implies a kind of openness; but someone who seems to be preoccupied with a previous relationship is less attractive,\u201d says Neuman.<\/p>\n

Revealing facts about a betrayal too soon can also bring vulnerability into the equation, says Kelly.\u00a0 \u201cWhen the time is right, make it clear what you want and take time to get to know someone.\u00a0 It\u2019s much better to be alone and wait for the right person.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Source: Magazine.foxnews.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00a0 Perhaps nothing is more heartbreaking than being betrayed by a lover, whether you\u2019ve been with someone for a few months, years or decades. \u00a0Yes, it hurts. But the real question is how to move beyond it. Confessions of Cheating Husbands \u00a0\u201cAny disappointment is likely to worsen feelings of low self-esteem that person may have […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":2410,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[51],"class_list":["post-2400","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-ports"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2400","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2400"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2400\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2410"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2400"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2400"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2400"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}