{"id":154141,"date":"2015-09-23T10:34:32","date_gmt":"2015-09-23T10:34:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=154141"},"modified":"2015-09-23T10:35:37","modified_gmt":"2015-09-23T10:35:37","slug":"3-secret-reasons-why-men-leave-good-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=154141","title":{"rendered":"3 Secret reasons why men leave good women"},"content":{"rendered":"

He was so into you … and then he wasn’t. Here are the reasons he won’t tell you:<\/p>\n

We’ve all rented a room or two at the “Heartbreak Hotel,” maybe even on more than one occasion.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, we say that we didn’t see the\u00a0breakup coming (even when it’s\u00a0approaching\u00a0like a raging bull wearing a neon green shirt and pressing a blow horn). Other times, they truly do appear out of nowhere; everything was fine, until suddenly … it wasn’t.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

No matter how a breakup\u00a0comes about, they usually have something in common \u2014\u00a0three secret reasons your ex\u00a0is likely hiding\u00a0<\/em>\u2014\u00a0secrets that keep him from\u00a0fully expressing how he feels.<\/p>\n

You may think: No way\u00a0… this isn’t\u00a0the case. Not my guy!<\/em> Your man was\u00a0sensitive,\u00a0open, and\u00a0cried\u00a0at the movies. But, all <\/em>men struggle with these issues, which confuse them and cause them to bolt.<\/p>\n

Understanding these issues can help you get over a bad breakup …\u00a0or, possibly help you get yourEX BACK. Here are the three secret reasons men break up with really great women:<\/p>\n

He felt pressured and inadequate<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n

Were you constantly chasing him?\u00a0Did you want more love, affection, or sex than what he was doling out?\u00a0Did you feel like you were frequently trying to “fix” things in the relationship?<\/p>\n

If you can identify with any of these, there was definitely an imbalance in your relationship, and more than likely\u00a0he felt pressured and inadequate in your presence.\u00a0And it’s important that you\u00a0know … that’s\u00a0not at all your fault.<\/p>\n

Most men run from emotional pressure like they’re running for their lives (because, in their minds, they are<\/em> running for their lives). Emotional pressure challenges the underdeveloped part of a man’s masculinity and makes him feel ill-equipped to deal.\u00a0In his mind, he feels like anything he does isn’t (and never will be)\u00a0good enough for you.\u00a0This causes men to naturally shut down and lock their\u00a0hearts\u00a0up like Fort Knox, rather than deal with any more feelings of pressure or inadequacy.<\/p>\n

Your relationship felt competitive\u00a0<\/strong><\/b><\/p>\n

If a man has to compete with a woman for control of the relationship, he not only feels inadequate, but also like there’s no place for his masculinity in his woman’s life.<\/p>\n

Keep this in mind: it’s very important.<\/em><\/p>\n

This isn’t to say that a man should control the entire relationship,\u00a0that’s unfair to both parties. Rather, a successful relationship has complementary forces where each person relinquishes control in certain areas.\u00a0If this doesn’t happen, both parties end up in competition \u2014 both compete to win and, in the end, the relationship loses. This dynamic shows up in scenarios like these:<\/p>\n