{"id":149117,"date":"2015-09-05T14:08:36","date_gmt":"2015-09-05T14:08:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=149117"},"modified":"2015-09-06T12:58:53","modified_gmt":"2015-09-06T12:58:53","slug":"10-tips-on-how-to-attract-the-perfect-man-for-you-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=149117","title":{"rendered":"10 Tips on how to attract the perfect man for you"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The old adage goes that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. Yet despite both sexes being unreadable to one another, there are still proven techniques for attracting the perfect mate and hitting it off.<\/p>\n<p>This is not easy, though. As well all know, attracting the perfect guy takes a lot of effort, and it\u2019s often the case that we have to go through the mandatory phases of embarrassing ourselves, spilling a few drinks, before landing the man of our dreams. And if we don\u2019t learn the right techniques, we could end up with the not-so-perfect guy at the end of the bar who has a drink problem, still lives with his mom, and is \u201cworking on the job situation.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But if you\u2019re ready to take things up a level, let\u2019s take a look at 10 proven tips on how to attract the perfect man today.<\/p>\n<p><b>1. Smell Nice<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Animals and insects gravitate towards a mate because a certain scent ignites desire. Women and men are no different, and the better you smell, the more chance you have of attracting the perfect guy.<\/p>\n<p>As well as perfume, you should also consider other scents too, such as your breath. Well all know that we need good breath if we\u2019re to impress a hunk, but sometimes we don\u2019t take the necessary steps to getting good breath. We suggest that you stock up on spearmint before heading out!<\/p>\n<p><b>2. Be Playful<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Men are not often attracted to serious women who can\u2019t take a joke, especially on first dates or nights out. Instead, they warm towards girls who don\u2019t take themselves too seriously, and who know how to have a laugh. It tells the man that here is a girl they can relax around and open up to.<\/p>\n<p>Being playful is really easy; you simply need to loosen up a bit and flirt! You should be a bit physical too, and sock him with a few punches to the arm, and a poke to the waist. Deliver a playful insult too, if the mood calls for it. Bottom line: don\u2019t be afraid to have fun!<\/p>\n<p><b>3. Look Your Best<\/b><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re in a long-term relationship, it\u2019s perfectly fine to pig out and lounge around your lover in your slacks.<\/p>\n<p>But if you\u2019re trying to impress the perfect guy for the first time, you\u2019re going to need to look your best. For this, you need to work on your makeup and your clothes. This might mean that you spend a bit of cash, but you should look at it as a long-term investment that will reap rewards. If you have the time, head to the gym more often and get yourself in a shape that you are happy with, and that feeling of confidence will help you catch a swell guy.<\/p>\n<p><b>4. Be Mysterious<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The key to reeling in the perfect guy is to create a mystery around you and keep him guessing. If you reveal everything on the first date, he\u2019s going to assume that you\u2019re actually a rather empty person who hasn\u2019t got much going for you.<\/p>\n<p>So you need to leave things out of the conversation and crank up the excitement and interest by keeping parts of yourself covered up. You want to keep him interested, and one of the best ways to do this is to give him the idea that you\u2019re like a box of chocolates filled with secrets.<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-8229335881479599\" data-ad-slot=\"6475450122\" data-adsbygoogle-status=\"done\"><ins id=\"aswift_5_expand\"><ins id=\"aswift_5_anchor\"><br \/>\n<\/ins><\/ins><\/ins><\/p>\n<p><b>5. Make Eye Contact And Smile<\/b><\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re always told to make eye contact when we\u2019re<a class=\"cocfqehze\" title=\"Click to Continue &gt; by CoupExtension\" href=\"#53066485\"> flirting with men<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/cdncache-a.akamaihd.net\/items\/it\/img\/arrow-10x10.png\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a>, but if you make eye contact\u00a0and smile you\u2019re onto a definite winner.<\/p>\n<p>Guys just love it when women look at them in the eyes when they\u2019re talking to them, and they positively go weak at the knees when you top it off with a smile. You\u2019re essentially telling them that you\u2019re into them, and this is a sign they will read. If you make eye contact with a man, it\u2019s sure that you have a 20% chance of hitting it off with them. If you smile too, you have a 60% chance. So smile!<\/p>\n<p><b>6. Mirror What He Does<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nope, we\u2019re not asking you to play that annoying game \u201ccopy cat\u201d that you used to play on the playground in order to annoy your friends. Instead, we\u2019re suggesting that you mimic his gestures.<\/p>\n<p>Whilst this sounds super creepy, it\u2019s a really simple trick that embeds itself into his subconscious. Rather than think, \u201cwhy on earth is she copying me?\u201d the guy will instead assume that you totally dig him.<\/p>\n<p>Just don\u2019t go over the top and mimic everything he does, because that is super creepy. But, for example, when he takes a sip of his drink, you should do the same. It shows that you are both in harmony with one another and are meant to be together.<\/p>\n<p><b>7. Be Positive<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nobody likes a downbeat, negative person in a bar who we\u2019ve never met before, and the perfect guy especially doesn\u2019t. For this reason, if you\u2019re trying to catch the man of your dreams, you need to be positive and upbeat.<\/p>\n<p>This means smiling around him, having a laugh, telling jokes, and being optimistic. It means asking questions, talking about your ambitions and generally being happy. Naturally, you shouldn\u2019t go overboard because he might think you\u2019re crazy; but just let him know that you\u2019re a positive, fun person who loves life.<\/p>\n<p><b>8. Have Nice Hair<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Guys love girls with nice hair. The more chic it is, the better. If you\u2019re having a bad hair day, it\u2019s really important that you resolve the issue before you head out for the night, because one of the first things a guy notices about you is your hair. And if your mane makes a bad impression on him, your personality isn\u2019t going to compensate for it. So obsess over your hair as though your life depends on it!<\/p>\n<p><b>9. Laugh At His Jokes<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u201cKnock knock\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWho\u2019s there?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOrange\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOrange who?<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOrange you going to let me in?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c \u2026 That isn\u2019t funny.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t laugh at his jokes despite him being otherwise perfect, you\u2019re going to struggle to win him over. Guys like to loosen up and have a giggle, and if you can\u2019t do the same and enjoy their sense of humour, you may as well move onto the next guy who might not be so perfect.<\/p>\n<p><b>10. Ask Questions<\/b><\/p>\n<p>The perfect guy is not a robot who wants to sit there all night asking you question after question. Instead, he wants you to take an interest in him and ask him some questions too.<\/p>\n<p>This is really easy to do; all you need to do is think about what you\u2019d like to know about him and ask away! Asking questions not only shows that you are interested, but it also opens up the possibilities of more avenues of conversation, as well as the possibility that you have more in common than you first thought.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>Source: Beauty and Tips<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The old adage goes that women are from Venus and men are from Mars. Yet despite both sexes being unreadable to one another, there are still proven techniques for attracting the perfect mate and hitting it off. This is not easy, though. 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