Dating a guy is the easy bit compared to reading his mind to find out whether he still loves you or not. You might think that turning up on that first date and impressing him is going to be the hardest thing you\u2019ll ever have to do, but once you\u2019re in a relationship, it quickly turns out that worrying whether you still have his love or not can be like living in a nightmare.<\/p>\n
After all, guys are not easy to read. They\u2019re from Mars as the clich\u00e9 goes, and they have a hard time expressing how they feel. And when you tell him you love him, he just mumbles a response and falls asleep. So if you\u2019re fretting over whether or not your man still feels as strongly about you as he ever did, let\u2019s take a look at 10 signs he still loves you.<\/p>\n
1. You\u2019re Always A Part Of His Plans<\/b><\/p>\n
If he maps out his future and it doesn\u2019t include you, you\u2019ve got a right to worry. But if he\u2019s the type of guy who is always including you in his plans \u2013 big or small \u2013 it means he still loves you.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s important for all couples to have future plans and dreams, but it\u2019s more important that you plan and dream together. If he wants to travel and see the world with you and not without you, he\u2019s expecting you two to be in it for the long term.<\/p>\n
2. He Still Holds Your Hand<\/b><\/p>\n
Holding hands in public is a sign of affection. It\u2019s a reflexive action, and sometimes we don\u2019t even realise we\u2019re doing it. For this reason, if your man still instinctively goes to hold your hand in a crowd, it\u2019s one of signs he still loves you. He wants to protect you, reassure you, and show you his affection. What a sweet man!<\/p>\n
3. He Wants To Hear Your Opinion<\/b><\/p>\n
Whether it\u2019s about a new car he wants or whether he should order a 12\u201d or a 10\u201d pizza, the fact that he\u2019s asking for your opinion means he still values it. Which is basically one of signs he still loves you.<\/p>\n
Guys who no longer care about their relationship want the freedom they had when they were single. This means they\u2019ll just go out and do things without asking you, because they\u2019re afraid you\u2019ll say no. Guys who ask for your opinion respect the fact that you could disagree with them.<\/p>\n
4. Small Touches<\/b><\/p>\n
Small touches are also signs he still loves you. Cuddling in bed is one thing, but if he can\u2019t help but touch your neck, hand or your arms when you\u2019re just sat on the sofa, it\u2019s a sign that he\u2019s still got lots of love for you.<\/p>\n
When we\u2019re in love with a person, we simply can\u2019t help ourselves when we\u2019re around them. Even if a guy is exhausted after work, he\u2019ll find a way to make sure he touches you as you both lounge around on the sofa. These touches may be small, but they go some way to reassuring you that he loves you and cares about you.<\/p>\n
5. He Wants To Spend Time With You<\/b><\/p>\n
If a guy has lost that loving feeling, he\u2019ll be wanting to spend more time with his friends than with you. He\u2019ll go to the soccer game at the weekend, despite saying he\u2019d go out with you. He\u2019ll stay out late at night and hit the gym alone after work. But if he\u2019s still very much in love with you, he\u2019ll make sure that he puts plenty of time to spend with you. Whether it means staying to watch the tube or sacrificing his weekend with the boys, just being able to spend some quality time with you is enough to make him happy.<\/p>\n 6. He Still Lets You Hang Out With His Friends<\/b><\/p>\n If a guy has lost the magic, it could be a case that he wants to spend time with his buddies to get away from you. He might seek relationship advice with them, or just find refuge in the fact that he won\u2019t be able to start an argument with you for at least another few hours.<\/p>\n But if he still loves you dearly, he\u2019ll invite you to hang out with him and his friends. You\u2019re an important part of his life, and including you in his social life isn\u2019t even something he gives a second thought to. It\u2019s just natural!<\/p>\n 7. He Does Things Just To Make You Happy<\/b><\/p>\n Another one of clear\u00a0signs he still loves you is when he does things just to make you happy.<\/p>\n \u201cWe\u2019re going shopping today,\u201d you say.<\/p>\n \u201cOkay,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n \u201cWe could spend in the shops for several hours.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cThat\u2019s cool,\u201d he says with a smile.<\/p>\n If he didn\u2019t love you enough to do things he doesn\u2019t like just to make you happy, you can be sure that he\u2019ll either be grunting about shopping, or pretending that he\u2019s ill.<\/p>\n \u201cI think I\u2019ve got a viral condition, honey.\u201d<\/p>\n 8. He Still Wants What Is Best For You<\/b><\/p>\n You know when you first start dating a guy and you tell him that you think you\u2019d like to quit work one day and take up art instead? He agrees with you, says that it\u2019s awesome and you should totally go for it. After all, no one should be made to do a job they hate. Follow your dreams and all that.<\/p>\n But when you\u2019re together, he may have changed his tune. Rather than agreeing that you should take up art despite the fact that you won\u2019t have as much money, he might tell you to be rational and to keep working your crummy job. Bills need paying et cetera. But if he really does love you, he\u2019ll want what is best for you. If work is stressing you out and you want to quit, he\u2019ll be on your side.<\/p>\n 9. He Surprises You<\/b><\/p>\n There is nothing a girl likes quite as much as a surprise, and if he still loves you he will know this. Every now and then he might arrive home with a bunch of flowers, some chocolate, a bottle of wine or a book you\u2019ve been wanting to read. This is one of clear\u00a0signs he still loves you\u00a0and wants to make you happy.<\/p>\n 10. He\u2019ll Tell You When He\u2019s Thinking About You<\/b><\/p>\n Sometimes just a text is the biggest sign that he still loves you:<\/p>\n \u201cHey. I\u2019m having a lousy day at work. But just thinking about coming home to you is getting me through the day.\u201d<\/p>\n –<\/p>\n Source: Beauty and Tips<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Dating a guy is the easy bit compared to reading his mind to find out whether he still loves you or not. 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