Everyone knows that women are from Venus and men are from Mars, and just like guys say that women are akin to unsolvable Chinese puzzles who they will never understand, we say the same thing about guys.<\/p>\n
Indeed, no matter how much you think you know your man, there will always be that unreadable glance, or that vague thing he says over dinner that makes you think, \u201cJust what on earth <\/i><\/b>is he thinking? Is he angry with me? Sad? Is he going to break up with me? OMG!\u201d<\/p>\n
We might drive guys crazy with our ambiguous ways, but guys drive us equally as crazy. But the great thing is that there are 10 things every girl has a right to know about guys \u2013 and we\u2019re about to explain them to you!<\/p>\n
1. Guys Get Nervous Too<\/b><\/p>\n
When you go on a first date with a man, you\u2019re naturally nervous. You\u2019re terrified in case you smudge your makeup on your way to meet him, scared in case the wind knocks your hair out of whack, and anxious in case you accidentally spill your Processo ALL OVER HIM.<\/p>\n
Guys are nervous too, though. Sure, they\u2019re supposed to be all manly, and sure <\/i><\/b>they take the lead and choose where to go, and they even pick up the bill with an assuredness that seems to be out of this world. But underneath it all, they\u2019re just as terrified as you are and every time they take a sip of their beer they fret that they\u2019re about to spill it all over you.<\/p>\n
2. Guys Love C<\/strong>ompliments<\/b><\/p>\n Yes, everyone does, even guys. A good compliment said in the right time can be a real game changer. Guys actually crave compliments, and it\u2019s not because they are attention seeking or needy, it\u2019s because they just hardly ever get any. Of course, guys prefer different types of compliments than we, ladies, do, and things like: \u2018Oh, you look pretty gorgeous today!\u2019 will only make a guy feel awkward; but you can\u2019t go amiss\u00a0when you compliment his skills, talents, manly behavior or strength.<\/p>\n 3. Guys Don\u2019t Actually Want A Threesome<\/b><\/p>\n Yes, many guys will tell you that their ultimate fantasy is a threesome, with some of the more creepier ones saying they want a fivesome. They want you and some random woman you pick up on a night out, all together in one bed. Shoulders, elbows, and 6 knees; they want it all!<\/p>\n The truth, though, is that it really is just a fantasy. Guys love their women and they don\u2019t want anything to mess up their relationship, and especially not a threesome. See, whilst it may seem enjoyable for him to be cavorting with another women, he\u2019s actually more worried that you<\/b>seem to be enjoying it. Poor guy!<\/p>\n 4. He Thinks You Are Actually Fine When You Say You\u2019re Fine<\/b><\/p>\n \u201cHey, you okay? I know we had a bit of an argument last night. I just wanted to text to see if you were okay and whether I should come round later. I love you. I really do, I mean it.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m fine.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cCool!! Does that mean I can go out for some beers with the guys tonight?\u201d<\/p>\n After 40,000 years of evolution, guys still haven\u2019t realised that \u201cI\u2019m fine\u201d means \u201cI\u2019M SO ANGRY AT YOU!\u201d<\/p>\n Apparently it\u2019s a fault in their brain mechanism that only a super scientist could ever correct. But because such a correction would cost $56 billion, it\u2019s never going to happen. Oh, guys.<\/p>\n 5. He Can Actually Cook<\/b><\/p>\n Sure, he can cook. He can cook some excellent dishes, and can even make a buff souffl\u00e9.<\/p>\n He won\u2019t tell you, of course. After all, he doesn\u2019t want to get roped into cooking your meals for you. Instead, he wants you <\/b>to wait on him hand and foot. He\u2019ll even set fire to a piece of toast just to prove that he\u2019s rubbish in the kitchen.<\/p>\n \u201cI thought toast was supposed to be set on fire.\u201d<\/p>\n 6. Guys Need Breaks<\/b><\/p>\n Your man loves you, there is no denying it. And whilst they may vow to spend the rest of their days with you, it doesn\u2019t mean they should have to spend every single second\u00a0<\/i><\/b>with you.<\/p>\n Guys need a break from us. It\u2019s natural. They want a bit of me-time now and then, they need to see their buddies and do guy-stuff. They want to hit the golf course, go to Vegas, or just play some video games with their pals. And whilst it\u2019s nice of you to suggest that he plays golf withyou,\u00a0<\/b>it just isn\u2019t the same for him. Especially when you keep missing the ball.<\/p>\n \u201cHoney, just hit the ball. Please.\u201d<\/p>\n 7. Guys Cry Too<\/b><\/p>\n Guys might be masculine lions who enjoy dominating, but it doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t enjoy a good cry like the ladies.<\/p>\n The thing is, guys tend not to cry in front of us. But, just like us, they\u2019re still humans who are actually subject to real, human emotions. I know right!<\/p>\n Unlike robots, men actually do get sad. They might weep over a teary film or they might have a moment to themselves, when they think of family members or friends who have passed away.<\/p>\n Every now and then they will even cry if you burn their dinner.<\/p>\n \u201cYou burnt the steak? Okay. Give me a moment.\u201d<\/p>\n 8. Guys Are Hard-Wired To Look At Women<\/b><\/p>\n It\u2019s very easy to get angry and upset when we spot our man checking out another woman, but we shouldn\u2019t take it so seriously.<\/p>\n See, guys are actually hard-wired to check out women! They have\u00a0six times more testosterone\u00a0<\/i><\/b>than we do, and this can often cause their libido to get out of control, particularly when there are women around. So what happens is they check women out on auto-pilot. Whilst it seems as though they\u2019re ogling your cute best friend and mentally undressing her, it really isn\u2019t his fault!<\/p>\n Unless he reaches in and kisses her. He definitely can\u2019t blame that on his testosterone.<\/p>\n \u201cIt\u2019s the testosterone, honey, I swear!\u201d<\/p>\n Nope, doesn\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n 9. Guys Have Dreams<\/b><\/p>\n It may not seem like it after yet another <\/i><\/b>day of toeing the line at work and coming home shattered, but guys do have thoughts above and beyond tomorrow. They have dreams and big plans for the future that they might not share with you, in case you shoot them down.<\/p>\n But despite appearing to be people who live for the day and who struggle to organise the bills, guys do think ahead to what life might be like in 5 years\u2019 time.<\/p>\n 10. Guys Treat Dinner Very Seriously<\/b><\/p>\n If you\u2019re the kind of girl who orders a salad whilst he orders a steak with all the works, he isn\u2019t going to be too happy if you then proceed to steal all his fries.<\/p>\n You ordered a salad for a reason and he ordered a steak for a reason, so suck it up and eat your cucumbers!<\/p>\n And, no, he doesn\u2019t want to swap a chunk of steak for a few cherry tomatoes.<\/p>\n Do you know other fun facts about guys?<\/p>\n Say happy!<\/p>\n –<\/p>\n Source: Beauty and Tips<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Everyone knows that women are from Venus and men are from Mars, and just like guys say that women are akin to unsolvable Chinese puzzles who they will never understand, we say the same thing about guys. 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