There are times in a relationship when you and your boyfriend have to be apart. Sometimes you have to spend hours apart when you both go to work, and sometimes you even have to spend days, perhaps even weeks apart, if one of you has to go away on a business trip.<\/p>\n
And whilst women can get pretty down about their lover not being around, we sometimes forget that guys are just the same. Yep, guys can be weepy-pants just as much as we can \u2013 if not more so.<\/p>\n
They won\u2019t admit it of course. They\u2019ll be all manly when they say goodbye to us, and they\u2019ll try to act all cool.<\/p>\n
Like, \u201cYeah, yeah. I\u2019ll text you sometime. Whatever. Just go.\u201d<\/p>\n
Right<\/i>. This means they\u2019ll text us within 30 minutes when they suffer an emotional breakdown. And then they won\u2019t stop texting and calling.<\/p>\n
They might not always admit it, but guys love having us around and when we\u2019re away for hours and days at a time, they really miss us. Things just aren\u2019t the same.<\/p>\n
But how do you know your boyfriend is missing you? Let\u2019s take a look at 10 key signs that your boy really misses you when you\u2019re not around.<\/p>\n
1. You Have Several Missed Calls<\/b><\/p>\n
Okay, several missed calls from the same person can sometimes mean they\u2019re being annoyingly persistent, but several missed calls from your loved-up boyfriend is usually a telltale sign that he really misses you and just wants to talk to you. Moreover, he probably just wants to know you\u2019re safe.<\/p>\n
See, guys might not want to admit it but they\u2019re just the same as girls. When we\u2019re not around, it really bothers them and they just want to hear the sound of our voice. And when they haven\u2019t head from us for a while, they just want to make sure we\u2019re okay.<\/p>\n
So they bombard us with phone calls and drive themselves insane when we don\u2019t pick up.<\/p>\n
2. He Writes You A Poem<\/b><\/p>\n
Even if he can\u2019t write, any emotional boyfriend who is missing you really badly will decide to pick up a pen and service a piece of paper with their own sonnet. It could be crushingly bad, but they don\u2019t care \u2013 they miss you!<\/p>\n
If the guy wants to get the poem to you instantly, he\u2019ll even text it to you. You might feel like laughing or you might feel like crying, but at least respect his valiant efforts. He\u2019s no Shakespeare but he does miss you.<\/p>\n
3. He Sends You Trivial Texts Just To Get You Talking<\/b><\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ve just bought a burger.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cJust been on the toilet. It was really cold in there!\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cGosh, it\u2019s dark tonight, isn\u2019t it?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSince when do we have a microwave? I\u2019ve just used it. Radical.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou there?\u201d<\/p>\n
If your boyfriend is really missing you and he\u2019s sat alone somewhere, he\u2019ll findsomething <\/i>to say to you, even if it really is the most trivial text in the world. It\u2019s just his way of getting you to talk when he doesn\u2019t know what else to say.<\/p>\n
4. He Starts Calling At Weird Times<\/b><\/p>\n
Guys find it really hard to deal with their emotions, and it often makes them impulsive. Some women might reason that guys can\u2019t deal with sudden emotions, because they don\u2019t feel emotions all too often, but they certainly do become overly emotional when they\u2019re missing us.<\/p>\n
So what happens is that he could be sat in front of the television when his mind will become alive with memories of you. Frightened that you\u2019re so far away from him, he\u2019ll suddenly get it into his head that he needs to call you up. Even if it\u2019s 3am, he\u2019ll call. This means another sleepless night for the both of you, but it\u2019s a surefire sign that he\u2019s pining for you.<\/p>\n
5. He\u2019s Got Plans For When You Return<\/b><\/p>\n
If your boyfriend wasn\u2019t missing you, he wouldn\u2019t be planning much for your return. He might scowl that you\u2019ll be able to cook him some dinner and that the microwave near killed him, but other than that he won\u2019t make any kind of fuss.<\/p>\n
If he misses you, however, he\u2019ll be telling you about the things he\u2019s got planned for when you return. Perhaps he\u2019s suggested that you both go out for dinner, or that maybe you could have a film night on your return. Whatever he\u2019s got in store, he\u2019s definitely hungering for your company.<\/p>\n
And if he really, REALLY misses you, he might even plan a vacation! Hey, this going missing game is cool.<\/p>\n
6. He\u2019s Staying In Tonight<\/b><\/p>\n
If you\u2019re away on a business trip or something, and your boyfriend texts you to tell you he\u2019s decided to stay in, rather than go out on the town with his buddies, it\u2019s a sign that he\u2019s smitten with you.<\/p>\n
By staying in, he\u2019s essentially showing you that he doesn\u2019t need to head out for a party to have fun. He can quite responsibly stay in, cook himself dinner, relax in front of the television and go to bed early. He\u2019s also showing you that he isn\u2019t the kind of man who is going to head out and talk to other women the minute you go away for the weekend.<\/p>\n
What a lovely man! Can we share him?<\/p>\n
7. He Asks You If You Still Love Him<\/b><\/p>\n
When you\u2019re not around for a while, guys can get really introspective. If they haven\u2019t spoken to you for over a day, all kinds of crazy thoughts start rushing through their minds. The biggest thought they stumble across is whether you still love them or not, and whether you\u2019ve gone away and had second thoughts about the relationship.<\/p>\n
So if you get a random text literally hours after departing that says, \u201cDO YOU STILL LOVE ME??!\u201d it isn\u2019t a sign that he has totally flipped; it\u2019s a sign that he is missing you.<\/p>\n
8. He Starts Liking Your Old Facebook Photos<\/b><\/p>\n
There are probably old Facebook photos of the pair of you that you\u2019ve forgotten all about \u2013 but he hasn\u2019t. Not now that he\u2019s alone at night and missing you. He might have a beer, grow a little sad, and start leafing through all your old photos to remind him how pretty you are.<\/p>\n
Then he\u2019ll get all teary-eyed and sentimental and he\u2019ll start liking them. Just to let you know he still cares and that he\u2019ll still be here when you get back.<\/p>\n
9. He Does Something To Impress You<\/b><\/p>\n
Whenever we\u2019re not around for short periods of time, guys can get it into their head that we\u2019re going to somehow \u201cgo off\u201d them and find someone else. So, in a bid to show us how great they are, they might just go ahead and do something they think will really impress us.<\/p>\n
Quite what they do exactly depends on their skillet. If they have a passion for fishing, they might go out and catch a big fish before sending us a photo of it. If they have a passion for gardening, they might go ahead and plant a load of flowers in the garden and send us a picture of that.<\/p>\n
10. He Sleeps With Your Shirt<\/b><\/p>\n
If your boyfriend is aching for you from head to toe, he\u2019ll probably get in bed with one of your shirts. He\u2019ll likely to choose the one that has the most emotional attachment for him, and he\u2019ll do this to feel nearer to you and to smell you.<\/p>\n
You might do the same too (we\u2019ve all <\/i>slept with our guys\u2019 shirts), and if he tells you that he cried into your shirt last night and now it needs washing, it\u2019s a sign that he\u2019s missing you.<\/p>\n
Stay happy!<\/p>\n
–<\/p>\n
Source: Beauty and Tips<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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