{"id":128763,"date":"2015-06-27T10:15:45","date_gmt":"2015-06-27T10:15:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/4cd.e16.myftpupload.com\/?p=128763"},"modified":"2015-06-28T16:47:57","modified_gmt":"2015-06-28T16:47:57","slug":"10-valid-reasons-you-should-get-married-in-your-30s-not-your-20s","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/?p=128763","title":{"rendered":"10 Valid reasons you should get married in your 30s, not your 20s"},"content":{"rendered":"

Marriage in your 30s is way better than in your 20s. There are some advantages to waiting until you\u2019re a little older to tie the knot:<\/p>\n

1. By your 30s, you most likely have sewed your oats.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve dated around, know what\u2019s out there, and got all the bad boy loving out of your system.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019ve had enough time to recover from your first major heartbreak.<\/strong><\/p>\n

During my research, I found that many women got married because they thought they\u2019d never find anyone else to compare to their first love, so they settled.<\/p>\n

3. Your 20s are about self-indulgence.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re creating yourself. By your 30s, you know who you are and what you can offer a partner. You\u2019re not going to outgrow each other.<\/p>\n

4. With age comes maturity and better communication skills.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead of fighting over little things or pushing issues under the rug, you know how to address them.<\/p>\n

5. You know what you want.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019re not going to waste time dating someone in your 30s when you know it\u2019s not going anywhere, so the partner you marry will be someone with whom you can have a successful future.<\/p>\n

6. You\u2019ve established self-confidence.<\/strong><\/p>\n

By bringing out the best in yourself, you\u2019re enhancing your marriage.<\/p>\n

7. By your 30s, you\u2019ve hopefully learned how to manage money.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Finances\"\"are a huge source of conflict for couples and a reason many young couples divorce. Who wants to spend all their nights fighting about cash flow?<\/p>\n

8. You\u2019re more secure in your career in your 30s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This provides you the time and energy to focus on a marriage.<\/p>\n

9. You\u2019ve had time to live alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Either with a roommate or love interest, and you\u2019ve become a responsible adult. You\u2019re not learning this while adjusting to marriage.<\/p>\n

10. You\u2019ve found your voice.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In your\u00a020s, you\u2019re facing pressure from friends, family, and society to follow the norm. In your 30s, you have the courage to stand up for yourself. And that will lead you to where you should be and who\u2019s supposed to accompany you on this life adventure.<\/p>\n

–<\/p>\n

Source: The Trent<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Marriage in your 30s is way better than in your 20s. There are some advantages to waiting until you\u2019re a little older to tie the knot: 1. By your 30s, you most likely have sewed your oats. You\u2019ve dated around, know what\u2019s out there, and got all the bad boy loving out of your system. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":120295,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[51],"class_list":["post-128763","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","tag-ports"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128763","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=128763"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128763\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/120295"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=128763"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=128763"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/citifmonline.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=128763"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}