When a girl meets a boy and he happens to be the man of her dreams, of course she wishes him to like her as well. We’ve already discussed a topic about “How to make the first date – the last one” where we gave you some ‘anti-tips’ what not to do…In today’s article, lets talk about simple things that will be helpful when you want a guy of your dreams to like you. We won’t be giving any manipulation tips about how to trick a person into loving you. We just will share some useful advises to keep in mind, when you really desire to explore this ‘special’ someone further and see, if the true love story can be born out of this relationship.
1) Be yourself.
The paradox of the whole thing is that there are no such tips and tricks that will make somebody to love you. Of course, manipulation techniques exist and they can have their effect, but this won’t last, nor bring any happiness at all, and thus, manipulation can’t have the true love as a result. This is why my first tip is – be yourself. If you want a relationship to last, you want him to love you for who you truly are, right? Then, don’t pretend, just be the real you, this way you will be unique and different, because there is only one you on the whole planet!
2) Beauty inside and out.
Everybody knows that first impression is important. Also, there is a saying that “men love with their eyes”, which is partially true, especially in the beginning. But guy doesn’t fall in love just with your physical body, he is attracted by the overall image of you and your beauty, both outside and inside.
As for your appearance, beauty, doesn’t necessarily mean to apply tons of makeup and create fancy hair styles in the salon. The secret is to emphasise your natural features with the help of some beauty tips and makeup, but don’t try too hard, just take good care of yourself and lead healthy lifestyle.
Keep in mind, that looks aren’t everything, the special person will also look at your inside, and fall in love with the inner you, as well. Therefore, cultivate your inner beauty, good qualities of heart and sincerity, those things are truly attractive.
3) Smile and be positive.
When you vibrate a positive energy, people are naturally attracted to you. One of the very important tips is – smile! When you give your smile to someone, usually you get it back. When you try to impress your special person, put on a smile and a positive mood, like this your communication will be easier and smoother and you will look more attractive. The most beautiful girl is the happy one! Avoid gossiping, complaining, avoid negativity and discussing other people’s business, nobody likes it. Guys like girls with cheerful and ‘sunny’ dispositions.
4) Keep some mystery about you.
It’s unnecessary to tell the guy all about your past life and relationships straight away in the beginning of relationship, don’t make him tired or bored by your excessive talkativeness. If you really liked this person and he is meant to be for you, then you will definitely be together and you will have the time of the whole life to talk about everything. Mystery usually is attractive and he will want to know more, but there is a thin border between the mystery and secrecy, so try to feel it.
5) Don’t show him all your feelings.
If you are already crazy in love with this person, you don’t need to express it all to him, nor let him know how much he is important to you, because he can be confused and sometime even scared
This doesn’t mean that you must put on indifference, my point is : give the relationship a time to develop and wait till you grow closer to each other, then you will be able to talk about everything and openly share your love, but in the very beginning the excessive love expression can repel a person (whether a guy or a girl).
6) Girl who listens is very charming.
And i’m not only talking about good manners, cultivate the quality of good and sincere listener, this will help a lot in the communication with other people and also with your special person. Don’t be too talkative, take time to find out what is on his mind, be interested in things that interest him and especially don’t impose your opinions, remember the saying: “The amount of opinions on the planet is equal to the amount of the people living!”, so respect and consider what other person has to say.
7) Avoid quarrels, use humour.
Good sense of humour is always up on the market. People like it, no matter a guy or a girl. If you naturally have good sense of humour, use it, don’t suppress. Joke, laugh, tell anecdotes, this will make communication easy.
8) FInd common interests.
Ask the guy what he likes, may be he is a sport junky and you also spend hours in a gym, or he loves to travel and this is also your passion. If you can find a common ground with your special someone, there is a big chance that this will make you closer and your relationship will last.
9) “Fall in love” with yourself.
See…can anyone fall in love with you if you feel unattractive, have no confidence and your full time job is to be a self critic inside your head? The answer is no. So, one of the most important things to have someone to love you is to fall in love with yourself and accept yourself completely no matter what. And I’m not talking about narcissism or arrogance, the point is to have healthy self love and self respect. Learn to see love inside you and the whole world will fall in love with you.
10) Let things flow.
And to finish up, just be patient and let things flow naturally, don’t force anything, nor try too hard.
Here is one of my favourite quotes and it’s very relevant in the area of relationships: “If you love someone, let them go. If they come back to you, they are yours forever. If they don’t, then it was never meant to be.” Manipulative or forceful relationships never last. If the guy was meant to be for you – you will be together and amazingly happy!
Source: Your Tango