Ways to tell if your heart is in your marriage


A lot of people say that they want their marriages to be better. But, I can tell that they don’t want it bad enough.  I can tell that their heart isn’t in it. When your heart is in something, it is a central part of who you are. When your heart is in something, your feelings, your emotions, your time, ...

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How money can make or break your relationship


Relationships can be problematic, but when you throw in bad credit; things can go from bad to worse. Before you get serious with someone, experts recommend broaching the decidedly unromantic topic of money to make sure you’re on the same page. The New York Times even reports that several dating websites go so far as to allow members to view ...

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5 ways to let go of past relationships


Don’t let your relationship history prevent you from finding love in the future. It can be downright challenging to get over your past relationships. Experiencing a bad relationship, breakup, or losing the one youlove can be overwhelmingly painful. We know how you feel. The simple truth is this — you entered into a relationship with another person expecting it to ...

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Parliament asked to increase sex age to 18


Participants at a two-day workshop in Sunyani have appealed to Parliament to amend some portions of  the Criminal Code to increase the age of consent to sex from 16 to 18. The amendment, they explained would be in line with the 18 years minimum legal age of marriage as enshrined in the 1992 Ghana’s Fourth Republican Constitution. The appeal formed ...

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Six stupid topics you should not be fighting about


When it comes to your relationship, there are some problems that really are worth fighting over. Some of these include lying, cheating and basic fundamental differences in life goals. Unfortunately, as you go about your everyday lives as a couple, you will most likely encounter many opportunities for conflict, both big and small. One big determinate of your happiness in ...

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Three things you should never say to your husband


One of the best things that marriage allows a person to do is become completely comfortable with another person. For women, it just seems too easy to feel so comfortable with their husbands that they think they can say whatever they want to their man. What many women don’t understand is the things they say, and how they say them, ...

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Are you chasing him & don’t even know it?


Think you’re just being “friendly” by sending him a flirty text or baking him a birthday cake? When we find ourselves falling for a man, it’s normal to start feeling that if we don’t show enough interest in him he might get the wrong message and drift away. We want to make sure he knows we like him. So we ...

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7 reasons you should forgive ‘The Other Woman’


When you find a man who wants to wine and dine you and makes you feel truly beautiful — it makes you feel all warm and happy inside. But that heartwarming feeling can quickly turn to heated anger if you find out there’s another woman in his life; another woman whom he tells the exact same mushy gushy goodness. And ...

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The 7 deadly sins of relationships


The seven deadly sins of relationships are like dating deal breakers but with the ante significantly upped. Here are seven ways to damn a relationship just when it begins, or after years of commitment: #1. Fighting unfairly: There’s no nice way to fight, but it must be done. You don’t want to be a dirty fighter; nor do you want ...

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Why failed relationships are good for you


Hurting after a breakup? To heal and grow from the experience, you must first be honest about your role in the relationship’s demise. Try these tips from my book, Real Love, Right Now. We must learn from each of our failed relationships so that we can be healthier and happier in the next one. Some of my clients claim that the ...

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