10 simple truths about marriage


1. You do not have to have sex each night. Intimacy is more than love making. Sex is not the only way to gauge if things are well in your marriage. Sometimes intimacy is about sleeping body to body, cuddling, having heart felt conversations. 2. You don’t have to argue over every little disagreement. Sometimes you have to move on ...

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The Sounds Of Sex [Article]


Disclaimer: You will learn absolutely nothing from this piece but hey, if you have 5 to 10 minutes to spare, be my guest! The views expressed here are based on my own experiences and observations. For my overly religious brothers and sisters, I still have lots of love for you but please, do not read any further. When it comes ...

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Afanyi Dadzie Writes: Your male friend proposed to you and so what?


I am a bit bewildered about this unwritten and silent rule that almost makes it look like it’s a taboo for a man to propose to his woman friend. And I notice this is a big deal for some women to the point that; they even consider it offensive, and they can get upset with the male friend who proposes. ...

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9 signs he’s not ready to propose


If you’ve been dating your man for more than a year, you, your mother and everyone else around you are probably wondering when he’s going to propose. If you’re a typical girl, you are likely to have thought about marriage and kids at least once in your life Come on, you know it’s the truth. If you’ve been dating your ...

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Matchmaking : Can a serious relationship come out of it?


What can determine a serious relationship and distinguish it from a long-term romance? What does serve as a basis and help it start? How can you make a search for a lifetime partner? Every person goes eventually through a moment in life when short but eventful and bright romances cease to bring satisfaction. A person feels a strong desire to ...

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8 Ways to be the man every girl dreams of


How to be the man all girls dream? This is the question that has been worrying the minds of mankind for hundreds of years. Who is the real man? We hear about him from everywhere, from the very first years of conscious life, no matter who you are – a man or a woman. A certain ideal of masculinity makes ...

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To snoop or not to snoop: A woman’s perspective

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I begin with the proposition that a great relationship is a transparent relationship, where both of you are open books. The more you know about each other, the easier it is to meet each other’s emotional needs and make decisions with each other’s interests in mind. A related proposition is that none of us is perfect. We all have predispositions ...

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People with tattoos more likely to cheat – Study


A study has found people with tattoos are more likely to have a “great sex life” but be inclined to cheat on their partners. Research conducted by dating website for married couples titled VictoriaMilan has discovered lovers who have body art are more likely to enjoy an affair or have a “great sex life”. The survey was carried out on ...

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9 Signs you’re not radically accepting him

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Your need to push him or her to the edge is a love crusher. As Andrea Miller describes in her book Radical Acceptance, radically accepting your partner isn’t always easy, but it is worth it. Radically accepting this person for who he or she is; radically accepting yourself for who you are; recognizing when your own junk and baggage are ...

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Think children will save your marriage? Think again [Article]


Having a happy family, marriage and personal life takes work and balance. Lots of it … My husband and I were so happy and carefree before children … We took regular strolls hand-in-hand. Smashed many, many happy hours, followed by a quiet dinner. The weekends were magical days filled with whatever we wanted. We were so happy and madly in ...

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